Throw yourself into school, concentrate on you & try to keep busy. Even those times where all you want to do is collapse in a sobbing heap, push yourself a bit harder to be out doing things.It's so easy to let it consume you but it won't do you any good. Don't let someone else make you feel this way, you're way too good for that.

Meg,
Relationships are my best teachers. Some teenage men are very selfish. They will do anything to satisfy themselves with little thought to their partners. I made mistakes when I selected potential partners from among women who were not really unavailable to me. Maybe you can benefit from reviewing your contacts with this jerk beginning at day one. Write down any actions he took and any words he said, which could have given you insight into what kind of a guy he really was. Ask some of your female friends if they thought the guy was going to treat you wrong. Then use that data to guide you in the future. As they say, another man will come along before long. Make sure he respects your needs before you commit yourself to the him.

Thanks I am trying to stop worrying and stressing over him all the time. Its really not fair the way he treats me. I have never been throug this kind of stuff before ( not this bad). Im freaking out I dont know how to just let him go

Meg - It really is a process. It takes time and its not easy but their is a light at the end of the tunnel. Like Meridon said STAY busy as much as you can. Also make a list of his worst attributes and hang them up and make of list of your positive points and hang them up as well.

If being with him makes you feel this bad do you think things are going to improve? It's time to move on. You are young and lots to enjoy in life. Being shackled to someone that makes you feel miserable when there is so much more for you out there just doesn't make sense.
I think you have a lack of confidence in yourself and have lowered your expectations. A beautiful woman like yourself shouldn't have to look to hard to find a guy that would treat you much better. Start spending more time with friends to keep your mind occupied. I wouldn't be surprised if you don't start meeting new guys and some will be a lot nicer than than this guy that's making you miserable.

Oh sweetie, I can feel your pain. It's such a hard thing to overcome this, but everyone's elses advice is so good. Keep busy, surround yourself with people who love you, make something of YOURSELF, and he will see you become a better, stronger, accomplished person than you ever would have been with him. The hard part is the time it takes....patience is tough!

Honey Im so sorry your hurting... I understand about not letting go... and that hurts too. Today I decided to start being angry instead of hurt... i know that wont solve... but it gives a little relief...it may not feel like it... but you do have positive things in your life to try to focus on... find those and hold on tight... your not alone in your pain... i know love is not a choice... you cant just quit... and you still have hope... maybe just b/c we need to have hope... but try to be strong and remember you deserve to be treated with love, tenderness, compassion ... all the good things