Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Somethings pop in my head from time to time - I guess my brain just suppresses most of what I went through in the beginning stages of my STBX going through her "gyrations" to protect myself mentally and to help me compartmentalize things - address the things in front of you - deal with other things later when you can.
I do remember one thing my STBX told me when she was in the heat of this whole A situation she said to me that her AP had good game. She actually said that he has good game I remember saying your married and he only wants to get into your pants and her saying probably.
I can assume from all the text messaging back and forth they did at the time her being one of the worse communicators on the planet only talking to her parents or friends once a month and never talking to anyone on the phone for more than 5 mins this AP and her were so consumed with each other more so him with his bullcrap of talking nonsense for hours on her mostly listening to his lines of crap listening to her mirror image of pure awesomeness being project back to her the smoke and mirrors of lies and deceit of crazytown.
He had good game who the heck has game with a married women? Normally you mess with a married women because you dont want to buy the farm you dont have to pay for anything with these people and at the end of the day you can say go home - they can go back to their W/H and only come out when they both need their stupid/sinful fix.
Good game he bought the whole farm with her and now shes his problem. Dumbasses.
I do remember one thing my STBX told me when she was in the heat of this whole A situation she said to me that her AP had good game. She actually said that he has good game I remember saying your married and he only wants to get into your pants and her saying probably.
I can assume from all the text messaging back and forth they did at the time her being one of the worse communicators on the planet only talking to her parents or friends once a month and never talking to anyone on the phone for more than 5 mins this AP and her were so consumed with each other more so him with his bullcrap of talking nonsense for hours on her mostly listening to his lines of crap listening to her mirror image of pure awesomeness being project back to her the smoke and mirrors of lies and deceit of crazytown.
He had good game who the heck has game with a married women? Normally you mess with a married women because you dont want to buy the farm you dont have to pay for anything with these people and at the end of the day you can say go home - they can go back to their W/H and only come out when they both need their stupid/sinful fix.
Good game he bought the whole farm with her and now shes his problem. Dumbasses.
I'm sorry Onyx. This just sucks for us all, but in the end they (incl my exH) isn't our problem anymore.
In the affair game everyone has it until its over then all one has is blame. It is a cat and mouse game
No victims all volunteers.
Yes, most woman (and men) know the AP is interested in them sexually. That is a big part of the allure...that someone other than their spouse finds them sexually desirable.
This is now history...you are in a new relationship.