Seems to be very true....and there is always another woman around my H. At work or texting on his flippin phone. ALWAYS and when I bring it up it's always "baby! NO! No way!" and I drop it.
sucks big time
-Angel-

I think your comment is pretty true of most men.

I beg to differ. I know and work with lots of women. Some are just like the guys. And my wife works with lots of men......so are womens male friends just guys they haven't slept with "yet" either..........

I work with all guys & that isn't necessarily true as they talk to me about EVERYTHING. They act like I am one of the guys...it has always been that way with every job I've had & nothing has ever happened between me & them. I think it depends on the person. You are either selfish & weak or not. Period.

joybean,
i love your replies you are right on.

You are so right Deyonce and Joybean.

I heard something similar from a man who had bartendeds for thirty years. He said there were some married men who would come in and leave with the first opportunity available. Some would only do so if it was the right opportunity and they stood small chance of getting caught. And, there were those who would never leave with a woman under any circumstances.

I've been around the block a few hundred times and I can say that it has been true in my life.

But for every loyal good guy, there are 100 cheaters of one variety or another.

For every good and loyal woman like Joy, there are 100 dysfunctional, needy and heartless women who, just like men, think with their sex organ.

In the interest of fairness I have to say I was one of the latter. Having a warped sense of morality just made me vulnerable to opportunists. It is a whole new lesson to be at the receiving end much less when you have spent years in your own good graces. It's a vicious cycle I'm struggling to break and hope I have the strength to be done with it.

yes i have lots of guys that are friends but I never hid them from my H, it was just a comment I over heard , yes and it goes for both sexes, but like my H he got tangled up with someone he works with ,oh now he regrets it ,Im not selfish or weak it just seems to be that spouses who cheat ,it's ually with someone they know or worked with or a friend,

Aw thanks forever. :) LipService, funny you mention the bartender story, as I use to be one. (We get a bad wrap btw! lol) But what I have seen and learned from doing that kind of work has opened my eyes to many different kinds of personalities and choices people make and how they act on them.(Not that it helped me in my OWN marriage mind you, as he was the only customer I EVER dated and the only man I chose to marry! *smacking hand to forehead*)