Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
My H cheated and now I feel he is trying to catch me doing something wrong. I feel like he doesn't trust me when I have NOT done anything wrong. I understand he is worried about me having a revenge affair (for a split second, when I found out about his, I considered it), but I haven't done anything and wont do anything. Two wrongs done make a right.
Am I the only BS dealing with this? Its getting to the point that we are fighting alot over this situation verses the affair itself.
Am I the only BS dealing with this? Its getting to the point that we are fighting alot over this situation verses the affair itself.
So feel free to let him know it's a load of crap.
It's like saying, 'well, sure I cheated but you didn't fold my socks last week, so that makes us even. And you forgot my dinner the other week...and the house is dusty...so if you really think about it, yeah I cheated but who could blame me.'
With this? It shows he's a jerk, and manipulative, and just 'off' in his thinking.
...and hell, I would be packing up his crap in some super Walmart bags and leaving them at the curb...
I don't care what he says, you are not to blame for his actions. He made his own choices. Without you. This is, in no way, him owning his shit. This is nothing more than him wanting to argue about you and not him...
Refuse to engage in that crap, pack him up and move him out.
...but I am a bitch like this...
Sending you support, L~