Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
This is the USA and we are free to give gifts to whomever.
The lawyer probably told him to keep his mouth shut and not make matters worse.
Glad you are dumping the cheater. Good luck!
If he loves you, is sorry, apologizes, changes his ways, etc., etc. then
let him earn his way back to you.
Just theorizing...