Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Well it feels like things have gone from bad to worse. Ever since I told my H that I was depressed after he suggested we could move close to where the ow lives, we are having no communication at all about the EA. He was mad that I was depressed, told me it made him feel like "sneaking around". It feels like that's what he is doing now. I am getting angrier. Sneaking was one of the things I made clear was NOT o.k. I'm tempted to tell a couple of people who know her what is going on. It would probably expose a few of the many lies she is telling (and my H believes all of them). On the other hand, I don't want to hurt these people and that's a possibility, as one of them is her ex-husband. Have any of you had these feelings, did you act on them?
Seeing as he ran around when you weren't down and now he wants to sneak around because you are down, seems there is no pleasing the fool, right?
Options..you can continue like this. Keep trying to please him. You can also not be looking out for the OW - seeing as she has done you no favors, whatsoever.
...really, you were honest with your spouse about how you felt. This is what you are supposed to be able to do in a good marriage. Now? You tell him how you feel? He says this? And it's bull.
I would give him a few weeks to get over himself. If he doesn't? Tell him to go cuz he's just driving you too crazy...
Sending you support, L~