Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I posted here last week under "should I forgive her...advice please!!"
My CS has repeatedly lied to me about her affair (see my post) and now when I am bringing up divorce, the second time, she is trying her best to convince me she'll change (again), she wanted me to go to MC, she doesn't want a divorce period. (of course she doesn't weant a divorce, I am finacially supporting her and the whole family. If we divorce, she will have to face family, friends, and most importantly, our kids)
I have some questions below for those who believes in rebuidling:
- when would you say enough is enough?
- If you choose to stay, why would you rather not leave the relationship and go seek a new life without the burden of the affair (and all these images, triggers)? but choose to bear this for the rest of your life?
- are all the rebuilders happy with their decisions currently or would you have done things differently?
thanks for your advice in advance!!!!
My CS has repeatedly lied to me about her affair (see my post) and now when I am bringing up divorce, the second time, she is trying her best to convince me she'll change (again), she wanted me to go to MC, she doesn't want a divorce period. (of course she doesn't weant a divorce, I am finacially supporting her and the whole family. If we divorce, she will have to face family, friends, and most importantly, our kids)
I have some questions below for those who believes in rebuidling:
- when would you say enough is enough?
- If you choose to stay, why would you rather not leave the relationship and go seek a new life without the burden of the affair (and all these images, triggers)? but choose to bear this for the rest of your life?
- are all the rebuilders happy with their decisions currently or would you have done things differently?
thanks for your advice in advance!!!!
lisalisa72, yes, they originally planned, if fate permits, they will be getting together in 15 years (from 2012) when all kids will be out of college. If they could not get together, my wife promised the OM she will fly with him in a small airplane...