Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I ended a 7 year relationship over two years ago with a man who I categorized as a cheataholic. One particular instance about 3 years ago, he was contacting a woman who was married. I found out who she was and where she lived and confronted him about it. Of course, he swore up and down that he was just helping her out because she was going through a tough time in her marriage and that she was a family friend.
Here we are 3 years later.....she was never a family friend. He is now living with her! I was shocked and not shocked at the same time. To think that we argued for quite some time about this person and there was many a night when I would go home and cry myself to sleep because I was lead to believe that I was "crazy" to think that something was going on.......
So for all you people out there who think you "think" something is not right, please follow your gut. Instincts will never steer you wrong....
Here we are 3 years later.....she was never a family friend. He is now living with her! I was shocked and not shocked at the same time. To think that we argued for quite some time about this person and there was many a night when I would go home and cry myself to sleep because I was lead to believe that I was "crazy" to think that something was going on.......
So for all you people out there who think you "think" something is not right, please follow your gut. Instincts will never steer you wrong....
Always sending love and support
I came on here today to tell those betrayed who are on the fence & know that they're being cheated on & made to feel like they're crazy to not waste your time like I have. Looking back, I see my H has been pulling away from me and making my life miserable. He wanted ME to leave him so he's not the bad guy. All the while, I drink my weekends away trying to forget the pain & to take the dark cloud that has been over my head away. Not pretty.....but now I know for sure and there is some peace in that. Now I don't have to play the detective anymore. I don't have to watch his every move.
I sent his whore a text yesterday letting her know she's a cheater & told her I don't think my family should be the only one's affected by what they've done. That bitch had absolutely NO remorse and was even MEAN to me! It's taken me all this time to say I'm done.....but people if you know there's no hope for you and you're clinging to your marriage out of fear of the unknown PLEASE re-think! Find the courage and get the hell out!!!!