Correcton:!Those who caused the hurt can fathom.. A little drunk now.

LOL sorry i was laughing at the drunk part
i second everything else.

I am hammered and thInking of the A. Reveng A cross the minds. I am at a bar in HB so cal. This sucks sucks .....

The j box is playing guns and roses.

ok,revenge a is natural to think about,but you KNOW that is not going to make you feel better. besides,a nasty bar whore? you will more than likely go home with more than just guilt to worry about.
anyways, i know your family means more to you than that.

find some darts;)

Revenge would be so sweet if there was a way to do it. Instead everyday I keep thinking that he's a worthless piece of crap that will amount to nothing.

It is some very intense pain, unimaginable to anyone who hasn't gone through it. We all feel your pain... good description, sorry you belong to "the club."

LOL...that's why you rid yourself of him so he can be someone else's worthless piece of crap.

I must say I don't like that I belong to our club but found so many wonderful people with such loving and caring hearts that can relate not only to the pain and hurt but also to life and each other. The price we may if forever but the bonds we share now are also forever and I am happy for that.

i hate to be in it either,but i found out very soon that i was in good company. i feel like i am closer to people here than my own friends and family sometimes.

So how's your head feeling today? :)

Sorry for the drunken rant/post. It sucks when you go out for a few drinks and your friend asks, "what would you do if your wife cheated on you"? He does not know what's going on with me and W but it was just guy talk. It hit me like a ton of bricks on the inside but I had to keep my cool on the outside. That sent me over.

@ lance - I felt like crap all day!!

You couldn't be more right. These cheaters don't even think about the pain they have caused (or they wouldn't have done it to begin with). All they are thinking about is themselves. How important was that price of ass????????? It's actually very easy to just go out and get laid, there is always a taker somewhere. Speak out and let her know what she did to you. Don't stay in this place too long because it will only hurt you. The only thing cheaters are concerned with is moving on so they don't have to hear about the PAIN they have caused. They are very self centered. Cheers to you. Enjoy that drink.

I hated not having any choices too. They decide to be whores. we clean up. Honor is gone, companionship is gone. Cold damn world I did NOT sign on for.
Hurtmom.... I have been here for nearly four years now at DS in a number of groups. Some of the loveliest people EVER, and I feel as if I have lifetime friends as a result. Crisis and loss has an upside too.