Seriously, so shattered. Haven't eaten in days, haven't slept. How do you
lovely people do this? I guess I'm just hoping for someone to hold my hand.
A reassuring word maybe. I thought I knew my husband. I thought I knew what
our life was about and where it was going. Going on 20 years of marriage.
I fought cancer for 6 years, I beat it. Almost died a couple times but bounced
back. I thought I had the best husband in the world. Come to find out as a police
officer he was having sex with another woman a couple times a week for atleast
two years and they've known eachother for 15. I'm only a few days into finding out.
And how do i find out? Ha, the biggest joke of all and I guess the joke's on me. An
old social media post and there she is half naked with his uniform hanging in the
background. Dear God! I'm a pretty girl, not to toot my horn but witty and smart.
Not to sound mean and believe me this definitely is coming from a place of hate because that's
where I'm at, she's fugly and fat, and maybe worst of all dumb as a post, but she was willing
I guess so maybe that was enough. I guess I'm not even broken I'm shattered. Should we go on?
Do I all it quits? Yes we have children and hopes and dreams and all that jazz. Once a cheater
always a cheater? Of course I get the old song and dance "You're the only woman I want for the
rest of my life." WTF!!! Really? At this point I am disgusted by his mere presence and the movie of them together
won't stop playing in my head. It's going to be the death of me if I can't move past this.
Ha, I'll take cancer any day. Atleast you know what you're up against.
I haven't been cheated on nor have I cheated on my wife, but understand the issues that lead to an affair and would be happy to be a shoulder or an impartial ear to listen. There is never a good reason for hurting someone you love, but often it's a 2-sided situation that creates the need for an affair - sometimes even just right-place-right-time - so it's good to have an objective view to see...
Honestly, I have nobody to talk with and it is eating me up. So, I'm going to bring you up to speed. So I can hopefully get some helpful feedback.I am 45 years old. Since I am unsure if this is made clear on the site, or if it even matters, I was the husband. I have spent the last 20 years with someone that has cheated repeatedly. Total, six times. A couple times before we were married and we...