Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I was scrolling through postings on my FB and came across something I found truly revolting. A cheater handing out relationship/marital advice.
Why in the universe would they ever think they are in any position to offer any kind of advice. And the subject they were advising on , cheating!!!!.
The person he was advising has suspected his GF of cheating or caught her cheating and this person who was a friend of mine at one time who left his wife for another woman thought it pertinent to offer advice "I wouldn't put up with cheating, I'd be out the door "
I was stunned, and I know all parties involved well, and a time or two he had taken it upon himself to counsel me on marriage, when I caught my H cheating ,I told him never to talk to me about it again, I don't want to know what he thinks .
Supposedly now he's married the love of his life, after destroying his first wife, lying to her for years, cheating on her constantly, left her for another woman, the woman he is married to now ,and he's telling other people how to be happy or what they should or shouldn't do.Saying HE wouldn't put up with cheating ? And by the same people I was told I was stupid for working it out with my H,
I am so angry with these two people it drives me crazy, they have this skewed view of the world, telling everyone what they need to do to be happy but yet leaving a trail of wreckage in their wakes to get to their happiness. They have no shame, they said the end justifies the means. I tell them them the last thing either of them need to be doing is giving out advice.
Why in the universe would they ever think they are in any position to offer any kind of advice. And the subject they were advising on , cheating!!!!.
The person he was advising has suspected his GF of cheating or caught her cheating and this person who was a friend of mine at one time who left his wife for another woman thought it pertinent to offer advice "I wouldn't put up with cheating, I'd be out the door "
I was stunned, and I know all parties involved well, and a time or two he had taken it upon himself to counsel me on marriage, when I caught my H cheating ,I told him never to talk to me about it again, I don't want to know what he thinks .
Supposedly now he's married the love of his life, after destroying his first wife, lying to her for years, cheating on her constantly, left her for another woman, the woman he is married to now ,and he's telling other people how to be happy or what they should or shouldn't do.Saying HE wouldn't put up with cheating ? And by the same people I was told I was stupid for working it out with my H,
I am so angry with these two people it drives me crazy, they have this skewed view of the world, telling everyone what they need to do to be happy but yet leaving a trail of wreckage in their wakes to get to their happiness. They have no shame, they said the end justifies the means. I tell them them the last thing either of them need to be doing is giving out advice.
I was the maid of honor at their wedding, I have come to terms with their decisions. But I don't believe they should be offering up advice.
I was used an excuse while they hooked up, and lied to their spouses, I was asked to lie in case the H or W asked . I didn't know about the first until years later but I refused to lie for them when I found out what was going on.
And the entire time I was confiding in my BF when I found out about my H, she was the OW in someone else's marriage. It was like trying to walk through a mine field.
It was really hard, all the way around ,talking to the BS when they call up heading for a nervous break down wanting to know why or why I covered for them, going through what I went through .
I just don't think they/he should be telling anyone how to better/tank their relationships.