Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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Wonderous 07/09/2012

Short of it my H and I are back together after a 2 month split so he could have his bachelor life w the neighbor.... He got all the fun and his wife back. I got the hurt and confusion.

Is there any books someone could recommend that may help me heal. ALL suggestions are greatly appreciated. Thank u in advance. (-:

deleted_user 07/09/2012

I liked After the Affair and How Can I forgive You

deleted_user 07/09/2012

Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass. REALLY good book :)

deleted_user 07/09/2012

I really love "after the affair " it was like
Reading my own thoughts

hurtmomofour 07/09/2012

i am in the middle of "get out of that pit" by beth moore....i was skeptical at first but it has helped me

deleted_user 07/09/2012

All of the books that were previously recommended are good.
For fixing what was wrong that lead to the affair, you might try "Getting the Love You Want" by Harville Hendrix. It will teach you how to communicate. Also, you might take a look at www.LightYourFire.com by Dr. Ellen Kreidman. Her CD series is the bible on how to behave in a relationship.

deleted_user 07/10/2012

I have also read After The Affair and How Can I Forgive You. They were very helpful and even had portions I had WS read to understand my feelings/reactions better.
Has your neighbor moved away? Good luck on recovery.

Wonderous 07/10/2012

Thank you all for responses, I will be checking into all of them. (-: Hopefully there is hope for us from all of this. Very appreciative!

Wonderous 07/10/2012

sHEbeLIEveD: we moved away from her to another town nearby. She is out of the picture, but now lucky me more neighbor troubles. It seems down the hall from us one of his friends hangs all the time with hooches in/out all day long. I'm ready to walk away for good. I hate people I can't trust, but I didn't get married to get divorced and he's willing therapy now. That's why these books are very important right now, it's my last ditch effort before saying: I can't deal with hurting anymore. This is your mess I didn't make, yet I reap the punishments for. Let me have my life back and find someone willing to appreciate someone who will give their all to them for.

deleted_user 07/11/2012

I haven't read this one but I've been to her website and the articles are very helpful. I think the website is beyondaffairs.com and her book is my husbands affair was the best thing to ever happen to me or something like that.

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