Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I was just wondering if anyone on here , had friends or discovered their friends were the OW/OM not necessarily in your relationship but they were responsible for busting up someone else's marriage/relationship?
I found out that my best friend of 24+ years was the OW, not in my relationship but had a hand in breaking up another friends marriage.
The entire time I was confiding in her , she was doing what was being don to me to someone else, mirror images. Looking back its all clear now why she was so mean and hateful towards me. Projecting her fear and anger on me b/c the man would not leave his wife and son. He eventually did and these two CS are married.
We barely speak anymore because I cant move past it, though I have made points to voice my opinion , but it falls on deaf ears. To these two people they feel as if they have done nothing wrong. I get the same old line 'Well if they were happily married then their marriage would not of fell apart "
Where do you all stand on that line ? I always felt that if someone was in a relationship/marriage they were off limits, you don't go after married or committed men,period. Her sense of self entitlement to go after him because she felt she wanted him is nauseating . She doesn't view herself as a home-wrecker/cheater . She told me " I told him how I felt and how he gets out of his marriage has nothing to do with me, I am not a home-wrecker. "
How can someone not view themselves as a home wrecker , when they were caught busting up someones marriage or been caught cheating with a married man ?
I found out that my best friend of 24+ years was the OW, not in my relationship but had a hand in breaking up another friends marriage.
The entire time I was confiding in her , she was doing what was being don to me to someone else, mirror images. Looking back its all clear now why she was so mean and hateful towards me. Projecting her fear and anger on me b/c the man would not leave his wife and son. He eventually did and these two CS are married.
We barely speak anymore because I cant move past it, though I have made points to voice my opinion , but it falls on deaf ears. To these two people they feel as if they have done nothing wrong. I get the same old line 'Well if they were happily married then their marriage would not of fell apart "
Where do you all stand on that line ? I always felt that if someone was in a relationship/marriage they were off limits, you don't go after married or committed men,period. Her sense of self entitlement to go after him because she felt she wanted him is nauseating . She doesn't view herself as a home-wrecker/cheater . She told me " I told him how I felt and how he gets out of his marriage has nothing to do with me, I am not a home-wrecker. "
How can someone not view themselves as a home wrecker , when they were caught busting up someones marriage or been caught cheating with a married man ?
You know who she is, what she is, and most of us would probably agree.
Don't drive yourself nuts, trying to figure out something which doesn't make sense in the first place. She is full of sh*t, and it is nonsense, whe is spewing forth! How insensitive of her, and she is no friend of yours. So don't try to make sense out of nonsense, it can't be done, and don't her her "crazy making" and rewrite history, affect your thinking. Never let some scumbag, convince you otherwise, as you are thinking straight!
She had no doubt our friendship was over even though they said it wasn't true. He didn't have her carkey on his keyring for nothing.