Im at this almost a year and still struggling. Mostly with the triggers and unanswered questions. My husband has done his part to date, but by no means is it easier for me, especially that I still don't trust certain things about him, which I know isn't good, but we're working on it. The old saying of forgiving but never forgetting is kind of crazy for me because while you are trying to forgive and move on you are not forgetting, so how is that not counter productive in someway?? The triggers for me have been my downfall. They are all I can think about sometimes. My situation happens to have alot of them. Will this ever feel like just a bad dream. Any insight will be greatly appreciated.
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