Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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cbazan 05/27/2011

Still watching cheaters (may not be good for me but I watch it every single day for the last 5 years). Any-who the couple that are on there now are an older couple (they appear to be about 65 years of age) The WOMAN suspects her hubby is cheating. When they did caught him on film with a much younger woman (she appears to be about 40) The wife kept asking Joey, "Why would he cheat now when things are so "GOOD"? They have been married 35 loooooong years. Well when they caught him and the side dish. Do you want to know what the side dish said? She told Joey, It's over for them...He and I are going to be together now. She then tried to leave, but they wouldn't have a show if it were that easy. So when Joey asked her why she would do such a thing her response was, "He was with her now and she's NOT giving him up". She then said without a bit of thinking or heart, We thought she was going to die...we thought she was going to die"...PLEASE EXCUSE ME WHILE I GO VOMIT....

cbazan 05/27/2011

That should have been, "She is with him now"....

deleted_user 05/27/2011

My advice to you ... stop watching that show.

My wife and I used to watch it together. We would talk about the weakness and downright evil actions of the cheaters. She held the same opinion as I did.

Little did I know she was screwing a coworker at the same time.

(It still amazes me that someone could be so deceptive that they could say that they hate cheaters while actually being involved in cheating.)

I have never watched the show again.

Don't watch the show again until you can think about adultery without getting triggered.

It does you no good, but instead does you harm.

Blindsidedagain 05/27/2011

(It still amazes me that someone could be so deceptive that they could say that they hate cheaters while actually being involved in cheating.)

This amazes me too. I have experienced similar things and they are the most painful triggers. It's an example of the cheaters ability to deny and live in a complete fantasy world.

cbazan 05/27/2011

I have been watching cheaters ever since it started so I have the day and time down packed and NEVER miss it unless I'm not home. My ex would sit and watch it with me...RIGHT ON THE NEXT GOT DARN SOFA! I would comment aloud about certain things and how I wouldn't hesitate to dump a man who treated me like that. He would comment on certain things as well. KNOWING FULL WELL he was COMMUNITY PENIS!!!! So that is rather DISTURBING at best that he could be that deceptive. Living in my home, sleeping in my bed, holding our son. After a bit of research and a-lot of think BACK. I discovered we both would be on our laptops at the same time. Me on media sites and him emailing the woman downstairs and women on face book not even 2 feet from where I was sitting. Oh well...I guess all that wrapped up helps me realize what a loser he is and how he just wasn't for me.

deleted_user 05/27/2011

LOL @ Community penis!

My H did the same. Total ruined Friday Night Lights for me, that jackass.

I'm so glad I don't have cable and can avoid this cheaters show, or else I'd be tempted to check it out!

cbazan 05/30/2011

The show for me is more about helping me get better. I hope this doesn't come across wrong, but it's more comforting and easier to PUSH FORWARD and KNOW I AM NOT IN THE WRONG in feeling as I do...when I see that it's not only I that am going through such a painful experience. I also love to see a cheater GET WHAT'S COMING TO THEM.

Blindsidedagain 05/30/2011

To each their own I suppose.

Psychologists call this systematic desensitization.

cbazan 05/30/2011

@ blindside "systematic desensitization" ? Do u have anymore information regarding that? I'd love to read more about that. I can be doing this and I have no idea what it is that I am doing. Being cheated on has you running around like a chicken with it's head cut off sometimes. Thanks for your input.

Lstecker 05/30/2011

Oh the dreaded Joey Grecco, right? That show is pretty unbelieveable. And this woman actually said, about the wife, 'we thought she was going to die?'

I am vomming right next to you.

L~

cbazan 05/30/2011

Yes L, she actually said it.....TWICE!!!! No heart, no sympathy, and absolutely no shame. The worst part is the IDIOTIC man who is roughly 65...he was cold-bloodied towards his wife and was blowing a bullhorn at her and the crew and kept screaming, "Get your fing asses outta here". DUMB ASS the woman doesn't really love him. She is looking and thinking about FINANCIAL STABILITY. And his idiot ass is throwing away 35 years to be used up. Man oh man what I wouldn't give to b slap a few people who are so deserving.

deleted_user 05/31/2011

I am with you on watching things like this. There is satisfaction in watching another one get caught and justification in leaving because watching another couple objectively, its so much easier to say, "well of course they should leave". It all gets so twisted when its your relationship and your children involved..

And I think blind is saying you'll watch it until it doesn't hurt anymore.

Either way I think its understandable.

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