Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
When i first came to this site i was furious, i felt and still feel betrayed, sad, and discarded. i said i wish that the other man would just die. well he did. we just found out that he was dead and i had to sit and watch my wife cry over him. she hasnt had any contact with him since dday and had done everything right in healing our marriage and i can understand why she was upset but i dont know how to console her or even if i want to. i hate to see her upset but i really dont know what to do. and to be honest i dont really care that hes dead, i almost feel relieved. i dont know how he died but his father killed his mother before thanksgiving so my only beliefe is that he committed suicide after all he was only 25 years old. i have never wished ill things on people...thats not my nature but i really dont care what happened to him. am i wrong for this?
Then I must be the exception, I wonder if the 2 years attempted R was more negative than a positive.
What the 2 yrs did was not only throw the EW out of the heart but into the scrap yard.
The secrets, lies, deception, loss of friends and community even post D day sex was gone.
I very respectfully disagree a person is very capable of throwing another out.
It may defensive of simply hate.
Even if she died, my marriage is completely over...In fact, I just told him, (he told me to call her and ask her where my things were-he steals my things), and I told him, she is not my problem, you are...It took many years to figure this out.
This is a sensitive topic, but maybe a lol in here - there was a book called Sheila Brown is dead and living in new york, well in that book, shelia wishes her uncle died, and a day later, he did, and she blamed herself. Just a drop of humor, even, I am also a victim of harressment here, but just thought i could make a smile here, in this horrible subject manner
For a man who has been through everything you have, you remained level-headed, caring, and wise.
Your comments are inspirational to me.
I feel you handled this recent situation about as perfectly as possible. You communicated your feelings.....you were supportive at the most appropriate level.....without being a doormat.
VERY VERY well handled IMO.