Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
It has been a year and a 1/2 and H has been in counseling and we seem to have picked up some of the pieces from the "emotional " A had. He still swears that he was never sexually with the OW. ( I don't believe it)
So anyways ,H noted some pearly white lesions on his groin area, nothing on the main organ or the below. He knew that i would jump to all kind of conclusions, so he went and saw his doctor Friday.
The doctor also questioned his possibility of multiply partners, H still denies that he ever had any sexual contact with the OW.
Well any ways the doctor called the lesions Mulluscum Contagiosum, usually a viral skin infection with children and may be contacted thru contact of toys, towels . When seen in adults it usually is from sexual contact. H brought home all kinds of literature from the doctor to give me this information while telling me what it is. The doctor froze the lesions off and told H he must not have any sexual contact for a week.
I am so numb right now , I don't know what to think feel or say. H told me all this Saturday morning and I have been trying to figure out what is next.
I told H that he needs to turn the whole situation around and put himself in my shoes and then tell me how he feels...
Has anyone ever heard of this or any one ever had their significant other had a STD????
So anyways ,H noted some pearly white lesions on his groin area, nothing on the main organ or the below. He knew that i would jump to all kind of conclusions, so he went and saw his doctor Friday.
The doctor also questioned his possibility of multiply partners, H still denies that he ever had any sexual contact with the OW.
Well any ways the doctor called the lesions Mulluscum Contagiosum, usually a viral skin infection with children and may be contacted thru contact of toys, towels . When seen in adults it usually is from sexual contact. H brought home all kinds of literature from the doctor to give me this information while telling me what it is. The doctor froze the lesions off and told H he must not have any sexual contact for a week.
I am so numb right now , I don't know what to think feel or say. H told me all this Saturday morning and I have been trying to figure out what is next.
I told H that he needs to turn the whole situation around and put himself in my shoes and then tell me how he feels...
Has anyone ever heard of this or any one ever had their significant other had a STD????
My wife had an EA and PA with the OM, and they had totally unprotected sex. My wife then had sex with me before I found out about the affair. We will both do HIV testing after a few months have passed so there's less chance of a false-negative.
For the other STDs, should I just have my wife get tested, or should we both do it? It's pretty invasive (and freaks me out a little), and I guess I'm just wondering if she's tested and comes back negative for everything, should I not worry? Is the incidence of false-negatives with other STDs high enough that I can assume I don't have them if she doesn't have them?
If I have to do it, I will. Just want to avoid the humiliation and discomfort if I can.
Thanks.
Thanks for the input!