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Hey girls,
I o.k. so this weekend I have been such a crab to my husband. Sometimes I have to really go back and say sorry to him becuase I sometimes take this out on him! I get mad when he doesn't seem to be sad like me, or when he dare says that sometimes its hard becuase he doesn't know when I might become upset! I really am trying to not take this out on him, but it is hard. This weekend I have been an emotional wreck!! Do you find that sometimes you are mean to your husbands?? I am I the only lunatic this weekend?=) Oh, and it doesn't help that sometimes I get very jeolous of him because he has a child!=(
I o.k. so this weekend I have been such a crab to my husband. Sometimes I have to really go back and say sorry to him becuase I sometimes take this out on him! I get mad when he doesn't seem to be sad like me, or when he dare says that sometimes its hard becuase he doesn't know when I might become upset! I really am trying to not take this out on him, but it is hard. This weekend I have been an emotional wreck!! Do you find that sometimes you are mean to your husbands?? I am I the only lunatic this weekend?=) Oh, and it doesn't help that sometimes I get very jeolous of him because he has a child!=(
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Lili
Of course you're not alone in this!! I for one definitely do that as well. I hate that I take it out on him and am irritable towards the person who cares the most. I find myself apologizing to him time and again when I get like that. We all have our moments, including the guys. My hubby does it too sometimes. So just hang in there, and do your best to NOT. When I feel like that, I have found that some time alone helps somewhat. Hang in there, and love on your DH as much as you can!! We have some truly amazing men.
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we definitly all take it out on our husbands...the great ones understand, and don't take it personal. It stands to reason, that you would take a stressful time out on the one that you are with the most, and that usually is your husband. I think since the physical part of the IF process rests on our shoulders, and being women, who tend to be more emotional anyway, most guys understand that their part is to be supportive and have a thick skin to take whatever we dish out...plus, i think it's good training for when we do get pregnant and out hormones are REALLY out of control:)
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honey i've been there too...they dont deserve it but damnit sometimes we just have to take it out on someone...i have had to apologize and humble myself many times....im with ya
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Yes I notice that I always want to fight for no reason at all. My Dh always says I forgive you it's the medication. but literally they're the only person you can get mad with...But yeah I try my best not to fight w/DH,soyour not alone on this one...
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I do as well. My husband is such a easy going person and nothing ever gets to him. It seems that negatives don't phase him. I get angry that he is not upset as I am even though he does comfort me. I feel he has no idea espically when he's not the one getting probed and drugged. I love him just the same but your not alone.
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Oh Yes....I often have to apologize to him...God has truely blessed me with a patient husband...now if I can get pregnant and give him the child he deserves.....
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My hubby has a child from a previous relationship, too. She will be spending the next three months living with us. I often find that I get upset with him when I feel as if he isn't as serious about having a baby with me. I even sometimes convince myself that it's because he already has a child. But I do often apologize and I don't think that we should beat ourselves up over it. It happens. And I think in times when we aren't so upset that those are the best times to speak honestly with one another. It's been helping us lately. And I think that my DH and I have finally reached a place where we make allowances for each other, given our current situation.
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