Infertility Support Group
In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.
1. She tried for 7 years or so to get pregnant, and her eldset child is 7. That puts her at starting ttc somewhere around 11 or 12. Like as soon as her cycles began. How did the dr and nurses miss that?
2. If you have void and need to connect with people then you join a gym and get a work out buddy or something. You make friends. If you need your connection to come from children AND you're single AND not working.... then why not go to school to become a teacher or get a job in a daycare. See, still connecting with children.
3. She's on disability for a back injury. HELLO!!!! A woman with a perfect back can not make it to full term with one baby without some kind of back pain. It just makes perfect sense that with a disabled back she could carry 8 babies, and then when she's home with all her children care for all 14. Right, ever try to carry a newborn with one arm and a toddler on your other hip... I have can we say massage please. It wasn't a 'kill me please' kind of pain, but it did hurt.
Seriously, everything about her makes me want to pinch her head off and fling it back at her. How stupid to do IVF 7 times. Even for just one more after the 6. After the first one maybe even two... why not adopt a few children who need a loving parent or become a foster parent and help some lonely child who needs their faith in adults restored.
Just one more thing. Does she really believe that she will be able to finish school anytime soon with 14 children to care for? Seriously??!! This woman is touched in the head. I don't mean like bumped on the forehead with the stupid stick. I mean piece of skull removed and stabbed with the stupid stick, leaves and all... just a branch growing out the side of her head.
We can all forget any kind of nation wide mandated coverage now. It may still come to pass, but there will be so many guidelines and hoops to jump through. It will be crazy. I can imagine background checks, marriage/family counceling, financial records, and then we'll still have to sign some agreement saying something along the lines of 'agree to reduce pregnancy to x number if treatment yeilds results of higher order multiples'.
Stupid stupid stupid people. Just trying to see how far they can go safely, and what can they get from doing so.
With that said, I also beleive that our body is our right. I don't know any dr that would implant that many embryos but at the same time, it is her body and choosing what to do with leftover embroys is not something that can be taken lightly. Knowing her past success, they should have taken out less eggs so that she wouldn't be faced with what to do w/the leftover embryos.
http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/26184891/vp/29097701#29097701
They talk about psychological evaluations for people seeking fertility treatment. They said they do more when people adopt then when they do this. I'm torn on this issue.
NO WONDER THE STATE IS BANKRUPT! I voted for the Governator but MY GOD, what a mess he is making over here!
My ivf cost my family about $35,000. We took out a second mortgage on our house to finance it. Boy does this story burn my hide! Where is the justice????????
But I will say it one more time (and believe me, I do not understand why some parents who harm their children were ever allowed to have them) but infertility is hard enough without having someone try to tell us we can not do treatments because they feel we are not fit to be parents or to even have to go through an evaluation. Most the wold gets pregnant on their own and never has to be evaluated. I just feel that would be wrong. The doctor knew transferring that many embryos was wrong and despite what the parents wanted he was the professional and should not of done what he did.
I, personally, think that woman is a disgrace. And I think the dr. who did it should be investigated. I don't think he should lose his license b/c he has the ability to help people, but should have some kind of consequences for his actions. I sympathize w/ those w/ fertility problems and those who have to undergo treatments to fulfill their dreams but come on now! This woman is 33, relatively young, and already had 6 children under the age of 7. If she wanted a large family she had one. 6 kids is a large family. Her ability to carry children obviously wasn't an issue therefore there is absolutely no reason to place that many embryos back. Most clinics refuse to place more than 3. 2 is the typical number. If she were 40 yrs. old w/ no children then I could see wanting to put more back to better her chances. And why on earth would you continue to do IVF when you already have that many children!?! Let that dr. help someone who really needs it. Let him help my friends who have lost baby after baby or done 5 IVFs w/ no luck who want nothing more than to have a baby. The people who have spent their life savings just to fulfill their dreams of motherhood. Those are the people who need it. Not this woman. She makes IVF and infertility look like a joke. Now she has 14 under the age of 7 and lives w/ her parents. Nice. How in the world is she going to support them...oh yeah, from the millions she'll get in book deals and deals for pictures of the babies. I know how it feels to cry yourself to sleep b/c you think you cant have children and to feel like a total failure as a woman. I know how emotionally and then physically draining IVF can be. I've been poked, prodded, and stuck w/ needles more times than you can imagine and I've given up a huge chunk of my life savings for it. So if this woman was lonely she should have gotten a dog and let the dr. help someone who really needed it.