it was only a few things like two hats one for a boy and one for a girl and a card that is for a baby shower. i can understand where she is comming from and wanting me to get my hopes up for having a baby. she told me that she wants me to think about babies whenever i am looking up information about it or communicating on this board and that looking and touching the clothing will help me to relax. i have tried doing what she said and i will tell you it is working. holding the clothing in my hands and just looking at it puts me in that relaxed stage and makes me think about having a baby but i just worry that it will also get my hopes up too high and that i may come crashing down if i get a bfn. i can understand my family in trying to be supportive but unless you have been through infertility you realy have no idea what we are going through so i guess i cant blame my mother for trying because her heart is in the right place.
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