Infertility Support Group

In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.

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cwhit 04/05/2012

Ok ladies! I know its been awhile since i been on here. I have been really feeling down the last week n half. Well today is one year since i had my first and hopefully my last miscarriage! Today i have cryed more tears then ever and if the tears dont stop ill be dehyrated before dinner! I hurt every where today! I was wondering is there anything to help ease me through today? I have got zero work done, I cant focus!

deleted_user 04/05/2012

I am unable to give you advice on how to get through today, but I just wanted to tell you that I am thinking about you and praying for you to have some peace. ((HUGS))

Mendolove 04/05/2012

Hey hon,

Big hugs, I am so sorry that you are feeling this way, I have had 4 miscarriages and I havent been able to let any of the anniversaries pass without going through similar emotions. Our bodies and hearts remember what we go through! I am so so sorry for your loss! Be good to yourself today!!!

Susan
xoxo

deleted_user 04/05/2012

Perhaps taking a long bath, putting your head back and placing the warm towel over your face for awhile. Watch a favorite movie, drink some tea... anything that will aid in bringing your stress level down. And I second HisPrincess77's words... May peace come your way.

deleted_user 04/05/2012

So sorry you're feeling this way. I've had seven miscarriages myself and I know how hard it is to cope with. I say, don't try to stop it... squashing those feelings will only make them worse. I think it's better to feel what there is to feel and to help yourself move on that way (easier said than done, I know). Good luck and be good to yourself!

cwhit 04/05/2012

Thanks ladies. I was able to work half aday and came home to hubby. We both survied today. But still hurting. I guess the pain will always be there. I took it easy and didnt murder the brownies too bad. Lol.

idem 04/06/2012

wishing you peace and happiness moving forward, i'm sure all of us here are so much stronger than we think we are

deleted_user 04/06/2012

Hi there

A miscarry is hard to deal with. Mine was in December. The advice I got that made a world of difference was this...if you realize that its ok to feel the way you do and stop telling yourself that it will get better you can move forward. If you don't try to move on but instead just move forward it helps. You will never feel better about losing your baby you will with time be able to live with it easier. As soon as I realized that I needed to cope not get over it made a difference. The pain is real and that is always going to be the case it became more about accepting the pain rather than my miscarry.
I hope you can find some comfort in this.

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