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Just when I taught it couldn't get any worst.....My family is visiting and now they want me to go out with them, along with their children....on what you call..... a fun week.
Fun week- children games,foods,toys,outing events and a million and one...children festival.
Just when I started to feel better about myself and be happy.... with just living ....doing the things that I enjoy.
Here comes the family with their children....like as if i need to have a reminder that I am having issues with carrying a full term pregnancy.
I just don't why these things continue to happen to me....I don't want to weigh myself down with worrying,hoping and interacting with other people and their children.
To add insult to injury...my honey wants me and him along with his friend along with 4 children to go out and hang out.....like a fun day.
I don't have anything against people with children....but I am sick of them looking down on me.I don't have children....I want children...and I am having diffuculties.
I don't need a reminder...that I have no children and that.... I am not like them.That I .....stand out ...anytime they start to talk about their children.
Fun week- children games,foods,toys,outing events and a million and one...children festival.
Just when I started to feel better about myself and be happy.... with just living ....doing the things that I enjoy.
Here comes the family with their children....like as if i need to have a reminder that I am having issues with carrying a full term pregnancy.
I just don't why these things continue to happen to me....I don't want to weigh myself down with worrying,hoping and interacting with other people and their children.
To add insult to injury...my honey wants me and him along with his friend along with 4 children to go out and hang out.....like a fun day.
I don't have anything against people with children....but I am sick of them looking down on me.I don't have children....I want children...and I am having diffuculties.
I don't need a reminder...that I have no children and that.... I am not like them.That I .....stand out ...anytime they start to talk about their children.
given my honey or my family a response as yet.
I just needed time to figure.... it all out.But you sound like you had some success when just focused on other things and just had a good time.
For many years I tried to read the thoughts of others and it turned out I ws the one sometimes blowing things out of proportion .
The people were just trying to be nice.
Hey sweetie, big hugs and love!!! Sorry you have to deal with this, I know how you feel. I agree with JustBreath, if you're really not up to it then DON'T GO and don't feel guilty either! Over the past weekend I went to a six year old b-day party and I was the only one without a baby and it fricken sucked!!! I felt awful the whole time and my face hurt from having to force a smile all day! To make it worse I wasn't even able to take a few drinks to take the edge off because it was so close to my A.I. and today I told my Mom "no thanks" when she asked me if I wanted to go with her to the hospital to see my cousins new baby! If nobody is going to understand what we are going through, then we must protect ourselves, infertility is hard enough without putting ourselves through crap like this!!!!
Susan
xoxxo
It felt....great....I just went to places....i wanted to go....just me and honey.
Now, it's for me.... to make it through the rest of the days because it's not like they are leaving right after the fun week is over.....away!
I Like this grown up time....I have fun and not constantly be reminded that i don't have children,yet.
And guess what?? It's birthday season, all my nephews have a birthday one after another starting this month till June. Lucky me!
They went from talking about their children to talking about my weight.
For the folks that don't know and have not been reading my posting....I have fibriods and until I take care of them...I will not have a sucessful pregnancy.
Being around people that have children and are constantly talks about them doesn't make infertility ...any easier to deal with.