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Im just having a shocking day today the last few days have been a bit of a nightmare, first it looks like I ovulated later than I normally do (thanks fertility friend.) and BD was way out. Then last night I had this super vivid dream that I got a BFP I woke immediately (at 2.30 AM) and raced into the bathroom as I thought that has to be a sign!!! (Even DH got out of bed!) only to do a test and get a BFN. To say the least I was crushed as the feeling of happiness and reality in the dream was unbelievable and the reality well It was less than happy. I have an appointment today with my Doctor which I hope will shed some light on what the hell is going on.
I just cant believe how hard this is been, we are both decent healthy people who could give a little one such a loving home and cant seem to get there and then you have all this little girls, who only have to look at sperm to get pregnant, running around with their precious babies, treating them like crap and resenting the fact that they ever had them. Its just not fair!
I just feel so angry and bitter at the world at the moment..
I just cant believe how hard this is been, we are both decent healthy people who could give a little one such a loving home and cant seem to get there and then you have all this little girls, who only have to look at sperm to get pregnant, running around with their precious babies, treating them like crap and resenting the fact that they ever had them. Its just not fair!
I just feel so angry and bitter at the world at the moment..
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i am sorry. i am in a crappy predicament too. you are not alone, and yes it hurts so bad to see all these people get pregnant so easily. it is not fair, and to see all these beatiful babies being born, it hurts us on an everyday basis, the general public does not care. i went to go to my gyn's office the other day, and the room was filled with prego's talking to eachother about their pregnancy. to top it off there was portrait size pics of women hanging on the wall displaying their bellies! what about us, people think infertility does not happen, and we are grieving and hoping everyday.
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Are you sure you tested late enough? I'm asking because I had such a dream and did get a BFP but I tested not right away but a week after my period would be due (and about 2 weeks after the dream). If your ovulation was off perhaps you're still in 2ww?
deleted_user
I am so sorry you are having a hard time right now and that you got the BFN. I hope your doctors appointment went well. You will be in my prayers.
strength4today
i am so sorry... i hope your appointment goes well and can maybe shed some light on all this crap you're having to go through. it really does suck. hang in there!
deleted_user
Hang in there, unfortunately these sad days come with the IF roller coaster. This to shall pass. You will get your BFP, stay strong! HUGS!!!
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