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In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.

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Hard day

RoxyD
RoxyD
It's finaly done, I had to take my meds last night to mc and I'm bleeding today. After TTC for so long and 4 operations I couldn'tbelieve I was lucky enough to get a BFP on our first IVF cycle. The doc said it was a blithed ovum wich means your pregnant but the embryo never developed.
It's so hard today to let go of all the plans I had made in my mind. I was so ready to have this baby in my arms.
Now I just keep wondering when we'll be able to try again, if it will work or I'll mc again.
This journey is so hard to take and I feel so lonely.
bc0rny
bc0rny
Roxy, I am so sorry for everything you are going through. But you are not alone. All of us ladies are here with you. You are in my thoughts and my prayers. When you are ready emotionally, you will be able to try again.
RoxyD
RoxyD
Thanks Beth it is easier knowing that you guys are there and understand what's going on. I find it impossible to talk about it with my friends and family.
Hope all goes well at your us, you waited to long for your BFP, it gives me hope that I'll eventual get mine.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh my! I am so very sorry!! ((((hugs))))
deleted_user
deleted_user
Roxy I'm sorry for what you are feeling right now..IK this has to be a very hard time but It will be possible for you again it worked this time there is no reason to believe that it won't work again for you guys. You are in my thoughts and prayers tonight..
cidekmat
cidekmat
I am sorry for your loss hugs and my thoughts are with you
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. I had the same problem this past November and had a d&c. My RE had me wait until my beta reached zero and then 2 cycles before starting again. I didn't do IVF, but we got pregnant again 2 cycles later with IUI. I used the time waiting to do things for myself that we are advised to avoid while TTC - I started running and going to spin class again, enjoyed lots of caffeine and sushi, DH and I went on an overnight backpacking trip and then a ski trip... I took the time to remember who I was before IF and it helped me heal. Then, when it was time to start again, I was ready both physically and emotionally. We are all here for you.
JA0811
JA0811
I'm so sorry Roxy. You're not alone. Don't give up. saying a prayer for you...(((hugs)))
deleted_user
deleted_user
My heart breaks for you. My thoughts are with you during this hard time. Hugs!
deleted_user
deleted_user
You're not alone, Roxy! We're experiencing the same thing at the same time, you and I. It is hard and it's okay to grieve. Even though I feel I've been handling it fairly well, yesterday I allowed myself to stay in my pajamas ALL day, I ate all my favorite food, and didn't talk to a soul. I let myself cry and pray and I was pretty much in a fog. I felt horrible, actually, sitting around like that. But I needed it.

Today I went out with a friend, enjoyed the sunshine, and laughed a lot. Today I feel like I lived. I liked today a whole lot better.

Now I'm just waiting to mc... :-( so hard to say goodbye when we've barely said hello.

Hang in there, Roxy. Let us know when you try again!!!