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Sometimes things come to me just when I need to hear them most. This one was a tough message, yet I believe it is so, so, so true.
"How many days of the week do you spend wondering why you are not further along than you are? If thinking about it makes you angry or frustrated, you are definitely not on the right track. Exactly where is it that you believe you need to be? Why isnt where you are just fine? You can only be where you are, and it is up to you to make the best of it. You cannot get to where you are going until you have learned all there is to learn about where you are. There are always powerful, insightful, sometimes shocking things we need to know about ourselves. Those lessons are not over there. The things you need to know about you are right where you are. . . http://infertilityawakening.com/2011/07/05/exactly-where-i-am-is-exactly-where-i-need-to-be-fertility-fueled-by-being-here-now/
"How many days of the week do you spend wondering why you are not further along than you are? If thinking about it makes you angry or frustrated, you are definitely not on the right track. Exactly where is it that you believe you need to be? Why isnt where you are just fine? You can only be where you are, and it is up to you to make the best of it. You cannot get to where you are going until you have learned all there is to learn about where you are. There are always powerful, insightful, sometimes shocking things we need to know about ourselves. Those lessons are not over there. The things you need to know about you are right where you are. . . http://infertilityawakening.com/2011/07/05/exactly-where-i-am-is-exactly-where-i-need-to-be-fertility-fueled-by-being-here-now/
Bell101
Wow... This sounds like something my DH would tell me. Thanks for posting this. It is easy to get tunnel vision and only focus on the negative stuff in our lives. And really most of us do have a great lives, especially compared to many women in the world.
deleted_user
Totally needed to see this right now! Awesome!!
shannon1234
Glad you enjoyed. I really needed to be reminded it of it too.
deleted_user
yea u defientely have to enjoy the now and not focus so much on the whatifs not always easy but so true
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