The financial aspect of infertility drives me crazy. I can understand how frustrated you are. I wish I had some words of wisdom. Things always do find a way of working themselves out. Thinking of you.

I know how frustrated you are. It totally stinks! However life has a way of working out and sometimes little gifts or miracles just fall in your lap! Try to keep the faith! Enjoy your husband! FYI check for studies that infertility offices are participating in. I can give you more info R/E the one I am in if you would like. Sending prayers and baby dust your way!!!

I'm sorry you are going through so much pain. Why the hell does it have to be so hard?!!! Hugs.

I know how frustrating the financal part is. We are OOP as well and you pinch every penny to try and do another cycle. Big HUGS!!!

It stinks. I really hate the fact that my bank account determines the family that I do/don't have!

Did you look into 'IVF vacations'? Or I have heard of grants you can get for IVF? I didn't try to get these myself just yet, just wondering if you had?

I totally know how you feel. Right now we're on a strict money diet--no eating out, no expenditures except for necessities, etc. It really sucks. We're trying to save money for testing and another cycle of ivf. It's so expensive.

It sucks. We've tried for 2 1/2 years and could only afford 1 IUI so far. I'm going to a new RE on Monday, but other than paying for clomid I don't know what the point is. And the hardest part is my co-worker is a rich boy who is just writing checks for his IVF this month. It's a fortune to do IUI, IVF is even more, and adoption is at least $30k...I'm not seeing the light about any of it anymore.

i am right there with you. it sucks plain and simple. like some of the other girls mentioned check with your RE about studies and other funding options. we did a study for our last IVF cycle and almost the whole cycle was free. why can't we just get pregnant for free like everybody else does!!!

I am not to that point yet, but I know that if it comes to infertility treatment, we can't afford it either so I am with you on that. I guess we just have to have faith that our day will come. Either it will happen naturally for us or maybe we will win the lottery. Either way, I wish you all the luck.

In Acts 27 verses 13-44 it speaks of being shipwreck... We all go through these times in our lives when we aren't sure about the waters and things happen that we thought would never happen. Its then that we have to continue to put our faith in God. Also one thing that has gotten me through 2losses, PCOS, incompetent cervix, and now diabetes is Psalms 119 song Tau
"Let my cry come near before thee, O Lord, give me understanding according to thy word."
God bless

I am so sorry for your situation. Please don't give up! Sending you a big hug! This whole infertility thing really does suck!