Infertility Support Group

In vitro fertilization is one of the most common and utilized ways of treating conception problems. This support group is dedicated to those beginning their journey with IVF and needing support. Join the community and share your experiences, advice, and story with people going through similar challenges starting a family.

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lina2008 12/02/2008

GRRRR I just want to scream and shout and throw things around the house! I got a BFN today its 15DPO so this one has to be right... I'm so angry, why can't I get pregnant! What the hell is wrong with me... I felt like picking up the pee-stick and hurling it out the window. Everything looked good, my ovulation was early, my temps great, I had a triphasic shift in my chart and I haven't started spotting (which I should have been today). I feel sick to my stomac, I want to cry but can't cause I'm so angry and sad and tired and everything in between. I HATE this I HATE my self! How do I tell DH when he gets home tonight? Why do I have to disappoint him yet again! I think I may just go to bed for the rest of the day, I just dont think I can face anything else

CarrieDawn 12/02/2008

I'm so sorry. There seem to be quite a number of us with BFNs today. I'm feeling the same as you. Wondering what is so wrong with me that even with 3-6 mature follicles, I still can't seem to get pregnant. Nothing has ever frustrated me more. I feel a little better after shedding some tears.

deleted_user 12/02/2008

I'm so sorry. It's so frustrating when our bodies won't cooperate & do the thing it was so naturally meant to do. {{HUGS}}

deleted_user 12/02/2008

i feel you pain right now...hugs to you!!!!

lvnikita 12/02/2008

I am so sorry!

deleted_user 12/02/2008

I am so very sorry. I am in a similar place and don't have too many comforting words. I don't know why this happens, but please, as hard as it is, don't blame yourself. Be angry with IF. Be mad as hell at IF! I know I am right now. SCREAM how much you CAN'T STAND IF! Get it out because it does hurt. It hurts so much more when we try to keep it in. Most of our IVF cycles were with perfect or close to perfect embryos. My lining was great, the ET went great and 15 days later STILL no baby. It sucks all the way around, no matter how you look at it.

I am just really sorry you are hurting so much and I wish I could take all that pain away. I am here if you need me. {{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}

clh91 12/02/2008

I am so sorry that you have to go through this pain...it just plain sucks, I know. This is not You though..so don't hate yourself - please! Take time to get it all out - we are all here if you need anything. Take care of yourself...

deleted_user 12/03/2008

im so sorry girl i cried all day with my bfn and have now been up all night long trying to figure out how the hell im gonna keep putting myself and hubby through this he was so sad when i told him it was neg. I dug a hole for me and carriedawn to crawl in and cry ill make it a little bigger and u can crawl in with us.

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