I think this is such a personal decision that only you and your DH can decide together. I would recommend a lot of prayer. I think that whatever you decide you need to be at peace with it. If one more IVF will bring you that peace, no matter what the outcome and you can afford it then maybe that is the choice.
I hope that you find the peace with this decision no matter what it is.

Have you done extended analysis on sperm? If sperm DNA is fragmented it can cause an embryo to die after implantation. Have you done extended tests on you? I believe it if happened once then chances are good it can happen again. I hope what ever you decide to do it leads to a BFP and then the baby you long for. Good luck!

I'm sorry for all you are going through.
I can only speak for what I would do. With every miscarriage I have had, every procedure I have gone through, every test, every month I'm not pregnant,every heart ache, every why me... I want to give up.

However, then a few days later I get right back to it. Wanting to find out what I can do differently, what meds I can take, what other procedure I an do etc etc. I think right now you might feel defeated, and I get that, and have been there myself. However, there's always that chance of hope and that one thing that keeps me going. Like you mentioned you have been pregnant and maybe that's the hope you need to try again.

I'm at the I give up stage right now. I just dont think I can go through another heartache physically or emotionally. But I also know that this stage won't last long and i'll be right back to trying.

I wish you all the best in whatever decision you make.

I too have the dreaded unexplained infertility. I had 3 IVFs with one BFP that I m/c @ 8 wks and 1 FET which was a BFP-blighted ovum m/c @ 7 wks. I too would like to another FET but am tired of this roller coaster, especially since my RE couldn't tell me why I keep m/c.

I recently discovered the book "is your body baby friendly" by Dr. Alan Beers. It has allowed me to take control of this journey and order more tests. I have learned I have hetero MTHFR and will require a higher dosage of prednisone, heparin (lovenox) and folgard.

I understand your frustration, but my point is make sure you have had all the tests for you and your DH before making a decision. That way at least you will know you have done everything you could and there will be no regrets.

I truely wish you the best of luck.

My infertility is also unexplained and I know how frustrating it is. I'm not up to where you are though and it must be so hard. I just wanted to say that my heart goes out to you. I also have no idea what to do next, mainly because we don't actually know what the problem is. How do you decide on the best course of action to overcome unknown hurdles? If they can give you any idea as to why you might have lost the pregnancy that would help but.....there's so much they don't know. I haven't tried natural/herbal remedies but have heard (some) good things. I think at this stage I'd give it a go. But really, you know your own strength, resources and desires better than anybody else and you should make a decision with your husband. Maybe it might be an idea to give yourselves a time frame and a back up plan so at least you know what path you're on. I have no idea if any of this helps. All the best to you and your DH.

Oh....I just saw on your profile hat you've tried the heral thing as well. I'm sorry. In that case, maybe one more IVF might be an idea. You're obviously wondering if there's still a possibility there. At the very least it mightbring you some peace of mind. Or...maybe you might finally have your baby.

I had two failed IVF's really never got off the ground. I was taking a break. The re didn't advise IVF again for us. So I did acupunture and baby danced and got pregnant, unfortunely, it didn't survive. It DID, however, make my RE change his mind and wants me to try IVF one more time. I have insurance that covers it so I will try again. I don't know if I would otherwise. My point is that yes, a + does change things. Also, I would do acupunture. I really believe it works. Good luck to you and your dh.