Incest Survivors Support Group
Incest refers to any sexual activity between closely related persons that is illegal or socially taboo. Consensual adult incest is very rare. Incest between adults and prepubescent or adolescent children is a form of child sexual abuse that has been shown to be one of the most extreme forms of childhood trauma. If you or a loved one is a survivor of incest, join the group...
Have you talked to your mom recently about the abuse? You say she witnessed it, but does she admit to that now?
Losing his wife and kid would be the bonus for me.
Alas, it has been so long and at 45 no court in the world will hear my case.
You have to do what you feel will be best for you. I wish you all the best no matter how you want to handle this. Take care.
Keep sharing, and keep talking to them openly. I could see that it would be hard for them as well. They believe you which is a good start and not allowing your brother to come over anymore is great support.
I havent pressed charges, I wish I had. but I am not only remembering --
How did the talk go with your dad? I guess as your brother can't come round whether or not you stay depends on how your parents react to your taking legal action.
I think you are very very brave and strong to even consider it.
Hugs