Impotence & Erectile Dysfunction Support Group

Erectile dysfunction or impotence is a sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis for satisfactory sexual intercourse regardless of the capability of ejaculation. There are various underlying causes, such as diabetes, many of which are medically reversible. The causes may be physiological or psychological.

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  • Lioness2520

    Help me understand

    My husband has Ed he complains about himself so much it makes me crazy before during it right after sex because he either does not get fully hard it at all I DON'T have a problem with this he satisfies me in every way even when he doesn't get a hard on and we argue so much because he keeps using me as an excuse of wanting to for me I don't have a problem with that there's ways to work around it I...
  • HisWifey27

    Husband Has No Sex Drive

    I don't know what else to do, so I have searched to find somewhere that maybe I can get some support. I am 27 years old and my husband is 33. We have 4 children, ages 11,7,4, and 10 months. About a year and a half ago is when my husband lost his sex drive. Up until recently though, it had only lowered. Now, it is like he has none what so ever. I've began to feel like it has something to do with...
  • Idealstrontium

    Performance and shame

    29yo healthy male (non-smoker, non-diabetic). Seems like my appendage is dead. I don't get much to any feeling in it. Sure I can get off but it is less likely to go off when I'm with someone. It happened the first time I got a blow job and I was pretty anxious. I've also been on antidepressants that have killed it as well and left me with no drive. I have since switched to another class of...
  • dunie


    I have been having erection problems for several years.  Viagra is not all that dependable works sometimes, sometimes no.  I don't like the side effects, headache, heartburn sometimes for a day or more.  My doctor suggested Trimix, a penis shot.  I have the rx and an appointment for instructions.  Does anyone have any experience with this?  I haven't talked with my wife about this yet. ...
  • marriedMommy

    Fed up

    So after three years my husband finally went to a doctor, got something to help with his low testosterone and he stops taking it. I've lost any hope of being in a fulfilling relationship with him. 
  • MrUnsure

    Really confused

    My wife and I met 11 years ago, fell in love, married a year later. Here we are. Sex was great for the first 4 years. The sex started slowing due to the beginning stages of my ED I guess. After a few months, my wife said out of nowhere that she didn't feel like having sex. After the sex stopped and I would even mentioned sex, she said she was having bad memories when she was little and her cousin...
  • uglylonely

    Husband with ED, suddenly

    I'm new to the group.  Until four months ago, I would describe my relationship with my husband in every way as an 11 on a 1 to 10 scale.  We are both 50 and have been married for six years.  Our sex life was really fantastic until one day a few months ago when he suddenly couldn't get an erection. Since then, if he's been able to get one, he hasn't been able to maintain one.  I've asked him...
  • Nevertheless


    I've been married now for almost a year and my husband and I have yet to consummate our marriage. We waited until we were married to have sex. We did some have petting so I do know he was able to get an erection. He has high.blood pressure so the medication is the cause. We have tried the injections and they are not working. We are asking the Dr for a stronger dosage. I haven't been able to talk...
  • crazylady

    Any help for partners?

    Hi i'm currently struggling with my h's ED and it's killing our relationship. He would rather masturbate to pics or porn than try anything with me. He is a porn /sex addict in denial. There seems to be no help for partners in the UK apart from 6 weeks free counselling sessions which did nothing at all! Any advice?
  • deleted_user

    With erectile dysfunction

    My husband has had ED for over three years now. At first he told him he had a "broke dick" when he was on a deployment. I asked what happened and he said he didn't know it just wouldn't work. We went to a doctor who gave him a prescription. He took only one pill and said he didn't like the way it made him feel. I recently caught him with a women. He now tells me he only has erectile...
  • poolboy

    occasional ED ..... help!!

    My partner and I have come to the conclusion I am not "broken".My penis just has a mind of its own and tends to not cooprerate when I need it to.What am I doing wrong ???
  • stormyseas9

    Erectile dysfunction at 22

    Okay little introduction to my story, I am 22 soon to turn 23, living a active and healthy lifestyle. I drink socially and don't smoke tobacco or weed. My problem started around dec2014, I started finding it hard to get an erection with my girlfriend at the time, I thought nothing of it at first but as time gone on it got worse. Fast forward to 2017 I struggle to get a erection full stop,...
  • gertie2111

    Impotency and sleep apnea

    I am 45 my partner 57. He has impotency and sleep apnea, which meens we don't have sex or sleep in the same bed. I have got my head round this now, taken a cuple of years!! But my friends say this isn't right and won't last. After a string of abusive relationships this is enuf for me as he treats me like a princess. What do other people think. Ps he has tried all kinds of medication to fix this...
  • gertie2111

    Impotency and sleep apnea

  • PelvicWhat

    Too sensitive and...

    Hello. So recently ive noticed I dont get super hard anymore and if I masturbate i cum within seconds. Im 35 and 186. I also have a weak pelvic floor and therefore where depends real fit during the day. My wife is so upset im not sure what to do and how to fix it. Do i use cock rings, numbing creams. Im just not sure. I do get hard when arroused at physio massage but thats it. What do I need to...