Hypochondria Support Group
Hypochondria refers to excessive worry about having a serious illness. Hypochondria is often characterized by fears that minor bodily symptoms may indicate a serious illness, constant self-examination and self-diagnosis, and a preoccupation with one's body. Many individuals with hypochondriasis express doubt and disbelief in the doctors' diagnosis.
I also recognize the alienation of wife and kids. Painful isn't is? Do you experience better days/ weeks, alternated with bouts of hypochondria?
ADs and CBT seem like the right course to go, if you do not have bipolar in your direct family that is.