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The highly sensitive person (or HSP) is someone who cares deeply about everything ... feels emotions with great intensity ... is highly conscientious ... has a rich and complex inner life ... is very intuitive ... is often creative in a variety of ways... is easily overwhelmed and/or overstimulated. A HSP needs lots of quiet time,space, and freedom. If this sounds...

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dreamyHope 12/04/2012

Hello guys,

Do you ever get the feeling that your life is going to waste? Nothing ever happens. Nothing that you want, inspire to do comes right.
How does life get wasted? Coz what I am feeling right now, lack of motivation...procrastination, and fed up of life.
Each day is becoming less and less interesting, boring and lifeless for me.

How do you describe that?

deleted_user 02/05/2013

I know how you feel Argus------I feel like that in the marriage I am in. My husband of 43 yrs acts very passive agressive. I don't understand him at all and never did. He comes from an abusive childhood and I think he sees me as his mother and not a wife. I should have left about 40 yrs ago----wasted my life with him. Now I need the health insurance because I have Parkinson's disease. It is very hard to feel positive when a person feels trapped and unfulfilled in life. I get so sick of him and his stupid hangups that he keeps quiet about---he is a very angry, selfish person and I guess I am an enabler because I put up with it. In my mind I feel like I am just putting in my time here on earth ....

deleted_user 02/05/2013

oh gosh... this thread almost has me in tears.... circe78... ugh, i am feeling your pain... i tried sooooo hard to fit in the work world, i thought i was onto something when i became a computer programmer but it was the last job i ever had, coz i lost my health... right now, i'm just trying to find meaning in the little things i can do, like 3 dishes at a time... and trying not to cry because the only thing that gives my life any meaning is this internet connection... i'm not sure i would even exist, because nobody would see my tree fall in the forest, if it wasn't for this stupid computer.... my life has been more than a waste, at least by 'the world's' standards... the trailer park we used to live in had this old guy named Jim who was in everybody's business and he would constantly be telling me that if HE was nothing but a burden HE would have the guts to kill himself... so not only was i a burden, but i did not deserve to live, but was too much of a coward to do anything about it.... these are the messages we get, and we wonder why we don't feel well.....

deleted_user 02/05/2013

Hey Blue!!!!! wow,just like reading my story as well...Peace,and love to you,may we never give up !!

naturegirl65 02/07/2013

I get what you are saying, Dreamyhope.

I have often feel my life has been wasted.
I know life is not over yet but it seems one day rolls into the next. I have chronic pain and physical challenges that are all in the mix. Too complicated.

I'm Too tired and fed up right now to write any more about what is going on in my life but I get what you and others are saying.

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