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okay so i need some help on asking out this guy..

rainBowsLoveMe
rainBowsLoveMe
okay. so there's this guy i like alott. he likes me back. he wants to go out but he doesnt like asking people out so he's waiting for me to do it lol but im so shy with things like this idk how to go about it. i could just txt him but it doesnt feel right asking him out. i could do it in person but idk if id have the guts to do so lol and the phone i would probably just have to be like "do u wanna go out?" all randomly or i would never get it over with lol so i need some help/advice on this if u dont mind :P
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well congrats I see on your page you went for it and it worked out. I wish you too the best.
deleted_user
deleted_user
It seems as though you might have already figured this out or something, but offer something casually. Like, get together a group of people (girls and guys) to go bowling or something and see if he'd like to come. That way it takes off the pressure of a legit date and it helps break the ice a little.

Now, getting a date alone with him, just think of it kinda the same way. But I'm not really too into the girl asking the guy on the first date, but that's just me and my old fashion-ness.