I've gotten lots of good info here, but the prejudice and hate are stressing me. That is the opposite of what I need. It's not that one or two sick people post hateful things; I'd expect that. It's how many people defend this as "humor" that disgusts me and makes me sure I don't fit here. I need a support group where people are tolerant and try to help each other. So far the Alternative subgroup has managed to be that, even though it seems a lot of us are religious. We are able to have different faiths and still respect each other. BTW, not that it should matter, but I'm monogomous, married, and straight. I say that because we need to stand up against hatred even if it's not directed specificly at us. Bigotry hurts all of us. I'm so disappointed that the whole group didn't respond that ridiculing gays isn't funny or acceptable. Two threads on this after the one bashing other religions (after Louie asked for tolerance) is more than I want to subject myself to. Do you really want to give the impression that Christians are hate filled fools?