Hmmm, in some aspects, you might be correct, but, while obviously I cannot vouch for any of the fine ladies who grace this board, I do believe you will find a different breed of cat, my guess is they all like or love sex, and some will admit they like it in abundance.
As far as perfecting your skills, my suggestion would be to hang around here a while, read the posts, comment and ask a few qiestions. There is a wealth of knowledge to be passed on to a willing recipient here, not to mention many good books and of course the web. Probably, the one thing that will always improve a sexual relationship is to become a real unselfish lover/person. Jmo

Well this woman loves sex, always have and hopefully always will. At the age of 54 my libido, want, need and desire for sex is still sky high and I don't see any reason for that to change. Between all my female friends (yes, we talk) there's only one that does not like sex but she's also been in an abusive marriage for many years. The rest of us all have great sex lives and love sex.

As for pleasing a woman, as Toss said there's a lot of information on how to please a woman but the best way is to find out from the woman you're with what pleases her. We don't all come from the same mold and what is fantastic to one woman might be ho-hum to the next woman. Both partners being able to openly communicate about their likes, dislikes, turn-ons, turn-offs, fantasies, wants, needs and desires is the key.

You're right headache.. I don't like sex. I LOVE IT ;)
I know there are many women that way.. but there are also many men that way as well. Different people have different sex drives.

I dont know about other women but i have a very high sex drive. If I am in a relationship with someone i am sexually compatible with i want it as much as i can get it. The only time i can remember not wanting sex was when i was in some sort of depression such as dealing with the death of a loved one etc..Other than that bring it on:)

Most women I know like sex..many will not talk about it as explicitly as people in this group, but they like it.
How old are the women you are talking about? What's their background? I'm wondering if there is a certain type of women you know, or certain types of guys.

Generalizing that all women don't like sex isn't very feasible. It possibly sounds like you and your friends are not connecting to these women.

I think it's all in how a man and a woman, or partner and partner treat each other in romantic ways. Every person is different and you have to find out what your partner would like, or what it would take to please them, and how you would want them to please you.

Each person is different, take for example - Leather and I. Both of us are older (or shall i say, seasoned) and both like sex very much...she would be very bored if her partner wanted to have sex the way I like it, and I would be running for the hills if my partner wanted to have sex the way she likes it..

You have to find the connection with your partner and either talk about it or show each other what you would enjoy to help find the passion.

In my case, partially true, but very wrong. To me, the best part of sex is pleasing my man, so yes, that and simple physical contact are the main reasons I have sex - for me, expressing and receiving love is all about touch - and to be honest, orgasms are usually more of a fun bonus than the goal for me. But I absolutely love it, and I certainly don't do it reluctantly. Although resisting his advances can get him to really dominate me ^_^

As far as learning to please a woman, ask her. Explore her body, pay attention to her reactions. Every woman is different, what works for one of us may do nothing for another, and speaking from my own experience, it's entirely possible for a woman to know absolutely nothing about something she might thoroughly enjoy until she discovers it with her man. Those sorts of discoveries can be wonderful bonding moments for a couple.

Multi Orgasmic, Squirter...LUV SEX! Future X is asexual and faked it before we were married. "Nuff said about that. I amj a woman who LOVES SEX!

well personally i love sex with the right person u have to have some sort of chemistry/ lust and drive on both sides.

I personnaly know lots of women that like sex. I even know a couple that love sex or maybe its just sex with me. I have found that if you really take the time to make a woman happy in bed then it almost always comes back to making you happy too.

I do understand your thoughts and feeling though. i was married to a prude for 13 years and she didnt really want sex much , but I feel it was the Pchy drugs she was on mor ethen anything.

who is this advertising bot above me?

i think women who arent very experienced with sex can be this...like it can be painful and you need to have a lot of sex before it gets better. I know I was like this when I first started out having sex I was like this, and I just did it to 'get it over and done with,' it wasnt until my late 20s that I really started to enjoy it. But now I can firmly say that I love sex.

pretty much anything that starts with "X don't like Y" or "why do X do Y" is going to be a generalization that doesn't accurately represent reality.

All but one of the women I have been with enjoyed sex, many of them had sex drives equal to or greater than mine.

I was also very lucky to have some really honest women early one that would walk me through the process of turning them on.

For a long time I also thought that women were inherently selfish lovers that only cared for how THEY felt. I learned that it was the kind of women I was attracting, because of issues in myself.

Maybe you could ask yourself, why are you attracting women that aren't into sex? Are you settling for women you are not happy with? Why?

So it's been a while since I have been around but figured I would just dive right in here while I had a couple moments to spare.

I think that whether or not a person enjoys sex depends on person. I think that the quality of the sex very much depends on the openness of the couple in expressing their needs and desires. I have been married to the same man for 17 years and I still love sex.... And lots of it! And unless a physical ailment strikes me, I don't see that changing. ;)

headache, on this forum you won't really find women who don't like sex; we don't necessarily represent the general public of women.
Basically, don't try to learn from porn, don't be selfish, and ask her what she likes and then pay attention. Also, don't JUST touch her when you want sex. A woman usually likes to feel she's worth kissing or holding hands with ASIDE from sex. For some men, the nice words and touches only come out when they want sex, and that takes a lot of sincerity out of the relationship. "Your hair looks nice" should not mean, "I want to bang you."

Well that sucks Awesome. That's like, SO much work and thinking. Can't it all just be about the guy and what he wants when he wants it? Wouldn't that be easier on everyone?

It would be easier Okie...then we (the women) could just lay there and have him do what he wants, when he wants.. We wouldn't have to have any input at all, and just wait for him to finish his business..

Oh wait wasn't that what the OP was talking about?

Hmmm.. Isn't that called tired sex? Or I don't give a crap sex? Or man on top, get it over with quick sex?

I would be very bored, but whatever floats your boat I guess...I sure don't want to be on that boat....