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Okay because of factors out of our control, my husband and I haven't had sex since eh...January? Hopefully that all changes in a few weeks, but anyway..I rely heavily on masturbation.
Naturally I get bored with it and it became something I did to release any pent up frustrations I had and moved on.
So about a week ago I started holding my self off. I have not masturbated in a week, trying to see if it will be better after withholding it from my self. So far so good...
What you, have you ever done this?
Naturally I get bored with it and it became something I did to release any pent up frustrations I had and moved on.
So about a week ago I started holding my self off. I have not masturbated in a week, trying to see if it will be better after withholding it from my self. So far so good...
What you, have you ever done this?
Part of it is to see if I can develop more love and spirituality without feeling the need to wank, and part of it is involuntary, just 'cuz I ain't feelin' that lovin' feelin', or there's no one in my close proximity that I find hot.
Good luck!
I found the saying "if you don't use it, you lose it" to hold very true for me. At times I've gone a while without some form of sexual stimulation, the longer I've gone without, the less I miss it, the less I feel the need for it and that is not something I want.
it makes the time that you do it more special beause you take more time ovr it
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I love naked!
My wife and I we had good sex together. She used to say,"Come on, I want you to makelove to me". and we did it. Then, she became paranoid, used to say that the Catholic church was wathcing her.
she told me I could masturbate if I wanted to.
I thought it inappropriate, so I withheld. More so as she became worse.
Now she has been in hospital for over a year. I told her I missed her.
On a lonely site, this woman got really friendly with me. I fell in love with her, my feelings were all over the place. I told her of my feelings, that when I am in bed I think of her. I did not add that it made me feel good and horny. I couldn't stop having these deep pulsions whenever I thought of her. She is very discreet and will not pry because she is on her own too. We are separated by hundres of miles. I'll never be able to see her.
I would make love to her, I think she knows it.
So with her in my soul and body, I masturbate thinking of her. I cannot stop these feelings.
I told my wife about this friend. She accepted it. I want to stay loyal to my wife who is so ill.
I don't think it is cheating. I don't receive any love from anyone. I am on my own because of my age, my lung problems, and because of my wife. There is no one to talk about frutrated feelings or any other feelings for that matter. Only this woman, she listens and shares with me. And I love her for that. It is a noble friendship.
but I find it too difficult to stop myself, because I love this woman so much. so, sorry, I can't withhold myself from masturbation. I'm not going to cry it out loud! But I have to vent my feelings somehow. I hope you understand.Sorry.