Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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tossedaside 04/15/2008

While I may catch some flak for this, it has been on my mind a long time. Have discussed it with friends here at home but not on HS where all the people ROCK. enough sucking up
Is it easier for a woman/ or a man, to find a partner for healthy sex, a FWB. Im not talking about individual choices, I simply am asking do you think its easier for a guy or gal to score

deleted_user 04/15/2008

This is a good question, Tossy! I don't know if I have an answer but I'll try.

I can speak from my own experience that it's always been easy for me, if I wanted to, to have a FWB.

A lot of my male friends say that it's way easier for a woman to get laid than it is for a man.

tossedaside 04/15/2008

thanx savvi thats the way I feel but want a womans point of view, we have supposably gone through a sexual revolution so it seems it would be egual for each sex

deleted_user 04/15/2008

I think its easier for women. I get hit on all the time. It does not seem to matter that Im married. Hey Im about to kill my husband, so I'll call you if I don't get arrested.

deleted_user 04/15/2008

oh no it;'s easier for men..anytime they want it.....

deleted_user 04/15/2008

Morning Paul, that's interesting you are the first guy i hear say that.

deleted_user 04/15/2008

I dont believe it ..I'm just being an ass....but good morning to you guys...:P.....I'll try and behave for the rest of the day...:D

deleted_user 04/15/2008

IMO I think it is easier for women...

Women want more than just sex in a relationship so they are less likely to just 'jump in the sack'.

And I also think women have higher standards when it comes to whom we will or will not have relations with. Men on the other hand would do just about anything with legs....

Hope I didn't offend, just MO.

deleted_user 04/15/2008

Oh and good mornin everyone

deleted_user 04/15/2008

hey they dont even have to have legs..once you do an amputee you never want to go back..

soulsearcher83 04/15/2008

Good morning all. I would have to lean towards women because we're smarter and know how to string you along until you can't take it anymore. So we have the power. My best friend is an expert at this. I still don't know how she does it but I'm trying to learn :)

deleted_user 04/15/2008

LMAO Paul!!!

tossedaside 04/15/2008

got to be more feedback

bumperola

deleted_user 04/15/2008

I agree, where is everyone?

GZUSthug 04/15/2008

I'VE ALWAYS PUT THE PUSSY ON A PEDISTAL, SO I'VE NEVER DONE IT UNLESS I WAS PERSONALLY INVITED, AND MOST WOMENT AREN'T GOING TO INVITE YOU UNLESS THERE IS AN ATTRACTION OR SOME KIND OF CHEMISTRY.

THE WAY I SEE IT, WOMEN ARE IN ULTIMATE CONTROL OF IF SEX HAPPENS OR NOT...EVEN IF IT'S A WOMAN AMPUTEE, PAUL.LMMFAO.

FrankTheGreat 04/15/2008

Is there any question that it's easier for women to get laid?

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