Hello , I've been married for 3 years..my husband and I are at a point where sex is an issue he doesn't really want to do it with me and I do, and frequently.....He does hold my hand and touches me and flirts and all that but it never gets to sex....He only showers early to go to work....comes back and showers till the next morning.... and I feel like he does it on purpose .... He spends alot of time with my kids and I but that time he is just  watching movies....in his head alot....the times we have done it is because I have asked him, it's never half way or he wanting to....but the funny thing to me is that he wants to have more kids, but he doesn't even start with having sex.i have tryed to talk to him but I feel like I'm in trouble by him, he gets very angry....it turns out he started to watch pornography again,  and for 3 months now stopped....i just feel so much resentment towards him....could he be having affair? Or not attractive to me any more?....i try my best to be a good wife house clean everday, kids taken care of , cook for him , etc....as of now we are doing addiction meetings, therapy, therapy for my self, I've looked for tips on the internet, read books, now on here and nothing seems to be working...any advice, I would really appreciate it..