Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
so, i am physically unable to have sex with people. i have before, but most of the time it is far too painful. this is affecting my life in quite a negative way and i have no idea what is causing this.
There are various conditions that can cause painful sex, some physical, some mental. Find a good women's health Dr/gyno to explore possible physical causes. Also, if you have anything in your life history that might have caused emotional trauma around sexuality, or self-image and acceptance, then know that from an alternative medical standpoint, many emotional concerns/feelings/issues can be "held" in our bodies. And by looking at these emotional issues, either in therapy, or energywork sessions, you can often release the pain that is manifesting itself in a physical way in your body. Those of us familiar with energywork know that when something comes to us as a physical pain or injury, it is often an emotional issue trying to get our attention, usually because the time has come and it is ready to be dealt with. Oddly enough, this is quite common in people who haven't always been "allowed" to have or express emotional feelings. It's almost like our soul finds another way to express the pain...or so I believe. Good luck to you.