Some things I said I would never do sexually have been experienced with my current relationship. Having sex outside, in our vehicles, as well as in a restaurant restroom( that was my spontaneous idea). I learned never say never. They were all enjoyable. I also never thought I would enjoy being spanked so freaking much. Spanked on the Butt, nipples, or penis popped on the vajayjay. A few for starters. We literally experiment often. Sexy moments.

I always thought that vibrators and dildos were to impersonal and fake to be included within a relationship however when included in the context of play with the right partner they enhance and prolong the whole experience.
Bondage is something that appeals how ever I have huge trust issues and need to control when or if this occurs.
How the above affect my outlook on sex, the above things are both things I enjoy that never thought I would when younger, it's made me a little more sexually adventurous.
There are other things I'd like to at least experience just so I can cross them off my sexual bucket list.....

Sex chat is hot! I never thought it until it happened. I often have thoughts about it. But the sex chat partner must also enjoy it too.

Roll playing I thought was silly but I enjoy now.

Beginning at age 12, I developed a sexual attraction to Latino men. Dreamed for many years of fulfilling this fetish. Problem was, back in my early adulthood the Latinos stayed in their own barrio. They definitely were not mainstreamed. Many even did not speak English. But finally in 1979 when I was 33 years old, I met a 23 year-old Puerto Rican guy through a newspaper ad. Absolutely fabulous! Sadly, his family was going back to PR. so the affair was brief, just a few months. But eventually there were more and I never regretted them.

My X wife was totally against anal & 3 somes unti about 14 -15 yrs into our marriage. Those 2 things had nothing to do with our troubles.
I've always believed she got into it thinking it would save our doomed marriage, But of course sex wasn't the main issue for a sour marriage,,
There were many other reasons besides that.
I've had 3somes before I met her.

After she got out of NA rehab she insisted on trying anal for the 1st time & liked the orgasms she got from it, She had orgasms easily with any type of sex.
When she was in NA rehab she met a lady & introduced us, the 1st time we met we talked about doing 3somes.
My x talked to her about it before I met her.
The 2nd time we met I woke up in the AM. & found them on the couch naked, so I joined them, my x enjoyed it too.
while we were in our living room havin this 3 some,
2 of our lesbian roommates stood in the hall watching us, that was the most exciting part for me.

Our 2nd 3some was with a male friend for my x wife,
the same thing happened with the roommates watching,
they tried hiding but that didn't work well.lol

My X wife & I always had an open door to friends ,
don't knock just come in the house.
These lesb. friends before they moved in with us,
they begged to move in, they had no where else to go..
But I told them they can move in but I'm not changing my life for them. my wife & I were nudists & we don't wear clothes often
especialy in the AM, Soo I will be walking through my home nude even with you there.
They agreed. It worked out ok.

Cowboy357!!!! your life & experiences are things I read about. Anal, 3somes, being a nudist. WOOOW!

Like: Giving anal.

Dislike: Receiving anal (she stuck her finger up my ass; no prostate exam, thanks).

Koolman: I had a situation with the ex. We were drinking having a good time at home alone. I think we had a flick on as well. Well to make a long story short I reached back to his butt just to see what he would do, I was knocking on his back door literally. He never stopped me, he tooted it ever so gently. If I wasn't focused I would have missed the move. The only thing that saved my curiousity of seeing if he would actually let me put my finger up his butt was the fact that my damn arms wasn't long enough. The next couple days we were talking & I brought it up. He got so pissed! All I did was ask him his views. He totally acted like it didn't happen..Makes you wonder. I think he would have let me. What's more interesting is that if I had succeeded what would I have done lmao. I don't know the 1st thing about fingering someone. Alcohol is a trip.