Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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shanbanan 04/24/2014

So lately I find I'm always getting aroused. I masturbate frequently now. I'm in a sexless marriage and I don't know if that's why or if I'm at an age where my sex drive is higher?
I think of sex, I'm aroused and wet.
I see a hot guy, I'm aroused.
I feel I'm always turned on!
Is this normal?

weather 04/24/2014

Me too. Im in a sexless marriage..at times I get so horney..I madterbate a lot also..my dark secret..at least im not bothering anybody else.

Bubbabiker 04/24/2014

Sounds normal to me!! :)

msmermaid 04/24/2014

I am about the same here. I have learned to just take care of it in secret when I can. I still have a normal sex drive in my marriage too.

MsViv 04/24/2014

no, that's not normal at all

koolman 04/24/2014

Yes, quite normal, especially in your "dirty 30s", as my 30-something sister calls them.

debmitchell 04/24/2014

Lol dirty thirties? Well, I guess I at least have one reason not to dread my next birthday lol

Nothing wrong with wanting something (almost) everyone wants.

itson 04/24/2014

I want something.

MsViv 04/24/2014

Itson,
Everybody Wants Some...

What is it you want? Just speak your mind.

deleted_user 04/24/2014

I'm in the same situation and it gets old taking care of it myself .

koolman 04/24/2014

I want to be RICH...and laid.

deleted_user 04/24/2014

amen Koolman !

Reed31 04/26/2014

In terms of what's normal, I think when you're having sex regularly with someone you love, you don't really obsess about it. If you're living with someone you want to have sex with - and you're not - you can get into the place where you are right now. Yes, it's normal but it's like dieting. You really want carrot cake but you can't have it so you just eat carrots.

But you can eat 100 pounds of carrots and you'll still want the freakin' cheesecake. But, since all you are allowed is carrots, you eat lots and lots of them.

Totally normal.

freakchick3175 04/27/2014

I hate that when my bf and I have sex ( we dont do it a real lot these days I think because of health issues of mine too much to get into now..)
But anyway when we have sex and I do cum ...I dont always but when I do its like bam bam ahhh....sooo quick.
And opposite of how I used to be , once I cum its like ....*whitles*, lets get this over with.
Thats what I hate.
Wouldnt mind being aroused too easily it might lead to more sex but I sure hate cumming so quick

johnnykat 04/27/2014

I also am in a sexless marriage :o( but I am horny all the , all I think about is sex and eatin pussy ! I hate walking around with a stiffie !! LOL

deleted_user 04/27/2014

Enyoy being turned on cuz it does not last forever. I am glad I am still young to enjoy this wonderful normal thing

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