Thanks for the clues about which of my sincere feeling to express.

I'm with you Phoenix and Sheena. Talk is small. Its all the actions behind the words. Its what you do to SHOW me you think I'm beautiful, etc. I'm so sick of empty words and promises.

Darling Flutter, please give a few examples of Showing, I'm so very sure there are guys looking for some sort of input as to what shows love when words fail.

TA - Its making her feel like she's the only woman in the whole place when you are out in public. Its showing a genuine interest in everything she does and says. Its taking the time to do small things for her. Its respecting her even when you are angry. Its in your eyes when you look at her. Its in your touch when you are around her. There are so many ways....

it's also LISTENING when we are venting on an issue..whether it be big or small to you...and NOT trying to "fix" it or give advice on what we "should" do....We usually know what we need to do, and sometimes we even know how to go about doing it...just being able to talk it out helps us find our way better then having someone jump to "help" us......

Yes KIT but us men are so wanting to be the knight in shining armor! We can't help but butt in and tell ya HOW to fix it. Genetic flaw I guess.

This can't be a good sign, but when I read your post, somehow in my head it got translated as:

say things you don't really mean
tell her what she wants to hear
behave badly
have a good memory

Now what does that say about me? LOL.

Basically, I feel any actions I take that:
-reinforce I understand her individuality
-show I know important events and trials in her life
-demonstrate my respect and acceptance
-promote emotional safety and security

is how I enhance relationship.

So while I may suggest actionable items about women in general, it's a moot point. I would have to know which particular woman is involved to come up with a list of specific things to do for her.

And I also believe you could change all the pronouns and the same would apply to men.

Of course, what works best is when that list overlaps the kinds of things I like to do! Let's face it, some things are easier for me to do than others. If I end up feeling I have to be someone I'm not to keep the relationship going, then I'll eventually end the relationship. If I need to do things like KIT suggested, I can do that!!! LOL.

I didn't respond to this earlier, because I was surprised to see this list depicting all women as this superficial. I want a man to treat me and come into the relationship knowing that I am an individual. And my needs are going to be unique to me. And in return, I will treat him the same way.

Ditto Alone in Utah, except most, not all mind you, but most girls do understand this nature and perhaps that is why I love women so, because we understand one another. It's great the guys get to hear all this because it means they can learn some general things, remembering that everybody is different so there are still many questions and discussions two people should have to learn about one another, don't assume anything, be open to communication.

Guys remember these 3 words " I understand dear" and they will be good. Taking the trash out wont hurt to.

false. Women can't be summed up that easily. I need someone who's intelligent and can handle conversation. Also I love someone who's sensitive and compassionate. So, if you really want to turn me on, talk about politics or animal rights. All the things you mentioned are nice... but there are a lot more "categories" as you say.

I love when a man tells me that he only wants me ie: loves me, desires me, he wants no other woman ever, that I turn him on. I especially love it being whispered into my ears as we have sex. Mmmmmm...