Ok I have lots to say so if you don't like reading then find a shorter post.

I have quite a few things to address here.

I want to be completely honest beyond a shadow of a doubt. For those who've always wondered does size matter? The short answer is yes. This is a two way street by the way, but I'm going to address men first because there's less to deal with there. Being a woman I guess I would have a lot more to say there.

For those men who just wanted to be enlightened, women do like bigger penises. As for my self I'm greedy I want both length and width. But I think most women want width. And if she says anything different she's probably trying to be nice and not hurt your ego. While some men envy the horse don't envy the elephant. Some women like pain but even I don't want to tangle with an elephant in bed.

However, you should focus on your relation ship and worry less about your penis size. Women do not choose to be with men based on the size of their penis, average size has been proven to be adequate to do the job. What most women are looking for is security. Not saying women are gold diggers but the size of your paycheck is more influential then the size of your penis. And FYI money still talks louder than looks. But personality is probably equally important in a woman's mind. Who wants to marry a rich ass hole? Well some might be stupid enough to but the smart ones avoid it.

All that being said I now would like to talk about women. Maybe in the past the women were in the dark on this issue but thanks to the porn industry many are quickly becoming aware. Not not only does size matter but now we have to worry about looks too. I myself worry more about size and less about looks but then again mine doesn't look that bad. Size wise how ever I definitely feel slighted. Not only do women have to worry about her vagina being tight enough and looking younger, but she also has to worry about breasts sagging. There is a much higher rate of men leaving women for younger versions then women leaving their men for younger ones.

Why nature designed women to need smaller vagina's to attract men is pretty illogical. You would think it would be more advantageous to be bigger since a baby does come out of there at some point. And baby's do stretch that area out. A lot more than the common misconception that a loose vagina means an over sexed woman. While some women do shrink back to a normal size some unfortunate ones do not. Kegels do help some women but not all. As for me I have done them a lot and have had a 0% success rate. Also the thing about fat vs thin is not true, I've been both fat and thin and it has never changed the size down there. Also after talking to women I found out that more fat women thought they were tighter and the thin ones thought they were bigger. Whether that's true its hard to know because it's not like measuring down there is easy.

I've read on some websites that we women are suppose to talk to the doctor if we feel insecure down there. Bullshit I told my gynecologist and they were very unconcerned and insensitive about it. And if you're a poor ass like me you can forget about your insurance covering surgery. There are medical reason that they will cover it and I don't have any of them. I was also insulted by my male obgyn because my boobs are saggy. He asked me if I wore a bra. He said something else insensitive but I don't remember any more. I just remember feeling insulted. I've worn a bra since I grew them, even to bed. Yes they are big but they have always pointed in the wrong direction.

Even though I grew up believing that men like big boobs it has never once been useful in attracting the opposite sex. I'd trade my size for perky ones. So once again women have a lot more insecurities about their sex organs then men.

few I thought I had a lot more to say but that's all I can complain about for now. I needed to vent about it some where.