Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
Ok so a personal issue for me is that I seem to be insensitive to touch. There's a few parts of my body that is touchy but when it comes to actually having sex or masturbating I find it difficult to actually enjoy it. I'm 31, female. I've tried clearing my mind, breathing deeper and relaxation and am wondering if anyone else has any more ideas or thoughts that may help. There's probably no quick fix and I understand that but I am willing to try new techniques or if there is any herbs or meds that may help be a little bit more sensitive. Appreciate any ideas or thoughts. Thanks
The are many things in our past that can haunt us for life and cause issues with a healthy sex life.
I would suggest speaking with a coucilor about some of the issues and maybe a Dr. too if you happen to be on medication.
I feel what you really need is someone that understands you and wants to help you work through the sexual issues.
Hugs and best of luck.
Lostsoul-no not on any meds, wasn't sexually abused but did get my boobs groped by family member when I was younger. Nothing more than that happened. A friend said it could be because no one has taken the time to really help me figure things out. Usually just bare minimal attention and then it's over. I will keep looking and hopefully a few more people can offer some insight. I also think it's partly psychological, too much on my mind and not just enjoying the moment.
Thanks