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Does anything from your partners past bother you or turn you off?(something that they did before you were with them)
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It depends on how much it's still effecting their PRESENT.
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As long as it stays in the past and doesn't come up to bite me I am fine with it...Everyone has a past and a present and a future...don't let something take that away from you!
Tray34
thanks for all the responses.I wasnt trying to hit a nerve with anyone or cause problems.I know me and how I am and I have problems letting go of the past sometimes.I know we all have a past and I cant go back in time.The past is what makes us what we are today.I need to learn to move on and let go of what was.Thanks again for all of your honest answers.
SST
AS LONG AS SHE DUN TELL ME SHE USED TO BE A GUY ITS ALL GOOD LOL
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This is the exact converstaion my BF and I have all the time. His past is about as colorful as they come. I don't really like to think about the stuff he did before we got together, its the stuff he's done since we've been together that I have the most trouble with. He used to be a huge male whore. We techinally began as just a booty call for each other. He has two beautiful children by two different women. While I love them absolutely to death, it is a constant reminder that he was with their mothers. All jealousy aside, those 2 are the lowest and crappiest human beings on the face of the earth in my book. The things they have done to their kids makes me sick. I am trying my best to keep in mind that he is with me now and we are building a future toghther. But every so often I try and figure out how he could have been with trash like that before and be with me now.
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i know one thing my gf doesnt like, she asked me when i lost my virginity, tod her who it was....ase said ooooohhhnoooo, she knew the chick when she was in her teens and i gather she was a total hosebag!
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I have to say no. We're both open and honest about our pasts and nothing either of us did turns the other one off.
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