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The missing sex tape!

Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
I guess most of you know that I am going through a nasty divorce.

About 15 years ago, my wife and I made a sex tape. I was doing some cleaning while she was at work and I happened to come across this tape. PLugged in the player and watched it and I must say, I was quite turned on by the young couple screwing like rabbits!

I know the wife forgot all about it so my question is, should I tell her about it or should I just take it with me and pretend I never found it?

What should I do???
deleted_user
deleted_user
With the nastiness she's been dishing out to you, her craziness and how spiteful she is, I say just keep it and don't say anything about it. If the two of you were on good terms and parting as friends, I'd say let her know and the two of you decide what to do with it but not in your situation.
Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
Leather you know what? My feelings exactly !
deleted_user
deleted_user
i would keep it and not let on about it. then later destroy it or keep it. honestly though i do not want to see me fucking my ex-wife but to each their own.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Is that the ONLY tape? You sure she doesn't have one too, just waiting to use it as leverage to drag you through the dirt even more?
MsViv
MsViv
I would toss it...but, I'm not big on memories of good times with a person who has taken pleasure in ruining every aspect of my life.
tossedaside
tossedaside
In your shoes, I'd keep it and once the divorce was final call the biotch up and tell her it was showing at the plaza theatre
deleted_user
deleted_user
I would keep it for now and not tell her about it. She's been evil to you so she deserves no courtesy from you!!
Joe100
Joe100
I think I would take screen shots from the tape, and send copies of the pics along with a price list to everybody that lives within 10 houses of her.

Ok Ok ... maybe not ... but sure would be fun.
Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
LMAO I am so glad I posted this. I haven't laughed this hard in a long time :) (Wipes tears from eyes)!
Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
I actually thought wife chucked it a long time ago. If she knew I had it....oh my!....she would be breathing fire!

I have already been offered $50 for it from a former coworker. I declined but it was very tempting.
MsViv
MsViv
Maybe you could make an audio of it and have it as background throughout the house.. Or play it loudly when she and bf are in their room, then turn it off if one of them comes out of the room.
debmitchell
debmitchell
If I were in your shoes, I'd destroy it. I just wouldn't care to hang on to the memory.

Failing that, though, you should put it up all over the internet. Preferably with her name attached, on sites she frequents. AFTER the divorce is finalized. And maybe send a copy to Mobi.
Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
I think I should clarify something first. It wasn't the memory of it that I liked, it was just that I was alot younger back then and I looked like an animal in it lol!

Viv maybe I can use it for leverage and ask her if it is worth her half of the house??

Maybe I could sell it to one of those sex sights that have middled aged couples doing it or just sell it on ebay to the highest bidder! lol
Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
mobi, make me an offer
Spiky
Spiky
Folks, the moral of this story is never never make sex tapes. (unless you're a professional making porn).
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