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On another website a lady posted her perfect relationship and I got to thinking that it sounded pretty good.
I wish I still had what she wrote but will try and paraphrase it.
She wrote that for her the ideal relationship is where she has her home and he has his. They go out together and have fun, sleep over at each others places, but when they want to they can retreat to their own separate homes for some peace and quiet. She said she was married and hated having someone there every second, and no place to go to get away for any length of time. So now she enjoys being able to have her own alone time, and when she wishes she has companionship.
My room mate has this type of relationship. She goes over once or twice a week and spend the night at his place, and she spends the weekends with him but the rest of the time she is here. On occasion she will go out on a date to a concert out to dinner, or something, during the week and spend the night. The rest of the time she is fine here alone. I think this is why they have lasted for two years.
My GF and I also have sort of this type of relationship. She lives 500 miles away so we see each other every two or three months for maybe a month give or take a few days.
So just wondering, what is your idea of a perfect relationship??
I wish I still had what she wrote but will try and paraphrase it.
She wrote that for her the ideal relationship is where she has her home and he has his. They go out together and have fun, sleep over at each others places, but when they want to they can retreat to their own separate homes for some peace and quiet. She said she was married and hated having someone there every second, and no place to go to get away for any length of time. So now she enjoys being able to have her own alone time, and when she wishes she has companionship.
My room mate has this type of relationship. She goes over once or twice a week and spend the night at his place, and she spends the weekends with him but the rest of the time she is here. On occasion she will go out on a date to a concert out to dinner, or something, during the week and spend the night. The rest of the time she is fine here alone. I think this is why they have lasted for two years.
My GF and I also have sort of this type of relationship. She lives 500 miles away so we see each other every two or three months for maybe a month give or take a few days.
So just wondering, what is your idea of a perfect relationship??
My Ex-wife was very needy and clingy and drove me nuts. I could not be alone for any time when I was home from work, and she hated it when I wanted to go out with friends. Hated it.
Had another GF who was very possessive and if I was friendly to a check out girl I caught hell about flirting and how I was wanting to cheat with the woman, etc etc etc..the fact that she could flirt anytime she wanted was beside the point.
So I need space once in a while in a relationship. Spending every second with the other person is not good.
I'm tired of relationships where I have to be the adult and the other is more or less another child in my care. should not need to remind them to clean house or personal hygiene. PPSSSTT guys a ooth brush and dental floss are not just for when you want sex!
I also require a lot of space and alone time. I need my DS time and time with friends, often much more than time "alone" with so... I hate clingy and jealousy, and thrive on people and good times. The ideal man would have enough self esteem and faith in our relationship to know Im not ignoring them and I'm not attracted to needy. ..(actually it pushes me away big time)
I also have no need to share a bed on a regular basis. Sleep is for sleep and being crowded = me not getting enough sleep and that -= karen being a bitch. SO if I fall asleep on the couch they should know that there is a better chance of getting a a camel threw the eye of a needle than you would have getting cuddled or laid if you wake me up.
I also think ideally I would want a polygamous, or at least a swinging relationship. ... again I'm a more the merrier type a person than a one on one and I have been in love with more than one person at a time many times in my life and it has been feeling the need to choose that has ruined relationships and pushed me into deep depressions.
OHH to live in a perfect world where people could accept that not everyone needs the same things to be happy.
Yeah seems like once women get a guy they turn into Gollum and you become the ring... ROFLMAO...
Basically I was wondering what others idea of a perfect relationship might be.