Yes I gave into sympathy sex once and felt so guilty for doing so. I like to make love when we are both in the mood and our spirits are high. I can't do grudge, sympathy etc sex. I can't even make love when I'm hurt or upset.

Makeup sex. Now, there's a hot time.

Make up sex is good Zad :)

Once, and I still refer to it as the worst three minutes of my life. Don't plan to do it again. What is this makeup sex you speak of?

Totally, Make-up sex occurs as part of a reconciliation when a couple has had a fight.

It is the ultimate in "Kiss and make up."

Use your imagination.

I know, I have just never experienced make up sex :( I have heard really good things about it, though. My almost ex would literally get pissed and leave the house sometimes for days at a time. There was no way he was getting any when he finally decided to come home!

I've given it. Technically. More of a gift to a friend who didn't want to be a virgin on their 19th birthday, and didn't want to lose their virginity to some stranger. They wanted to be comfortable with the person. I sympathised. So technically, sympathy sex, but not in the traditional definition. I couldn't ever sleep with someone I wasn't attracted to despite how sorry I felt for them. Those people would get tea and sympathy, not pussy and sympathy.

I agree Sorce, but my sympathy encounter was with my ex-husband at the time.

Ive got a poorly tummy *sniff sniff* :)

You'll have to come up with a better one Broken ;) hehe

and my head hurts :)

Which one?? ops, that was my outside voice!!??

LOL Sorceress

I've received pity sex from my stbxh but IMO it's not worth it when the other acts like sex is a and to me it's very depressing afterwards so that was the beginning of the end to our sex life. I want sex to be for "us", not just to appease me and when it's offered with a big long sigh and hearing the words "Okay, if you really have to do it." No, there are only 2 things I have to do in life, pay taxes and die!

One of the first things I told my partner when we met, if at some time you're not in the mood that's fine there's always tomorrow but don't ever insult me by giving me a pity lay.

I'm thinking Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan in the movie, When Harry Met Sally.

She was all broken-heated when she found out her EX was getting married (!), after her ex said he didn't want to get married and then got engaged a mere two months after he met this new woman "He just doesn't want to marry ME!", and Billy Crystal, the dog that his character is, had been lecturing "men and women who are attracted to each other can't just be friends" and ends up developing a very deep, sex-free relationship with Meg Ryan's character. In her vulnerable state, they hug and...then their lips meet. They kiss, it's hot, and they end up doing the deed. Next morning, she's in absolute bliss, he's wondering "what did we just do? Where does this go NOW?"

I could do pity sex, if I was clear in my head "this is all it is" and not pinning any other grandiose notions to it. And not getting attached to the girl, 'cuz I know she'll go back to the other schlub next day.