Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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jokiwhau 01/14/2016

OMG - I really like this guy and after dating a few weeks we finally had sex. I was shocked to see that he has a super small penis! I have never had sex with someone that small, so I didn't know what to expect.

Surprisingly enough, it was great! I think he knows he is small, and made up for it by giving me all of the pleasure I wanted before he had his turn.

I guess I am worried though, because I really like having a guy inside me (sorry to be a bit graphic here). I couldn't feel much when he was inside, and it worries me that I might not make it long term because of it. Am I being shallow????

Seems like a weird and dumb situation to ask questions about! LOL

Thanks for any help and advice you might have. :-)

dsf95 01/14/2016

Have you thought about hollow strap-ons or those studded sleeve things? Might help

marytcontrary 01/14/2016

If everything else works great and you really like him, I'd keep him!!!

koolman 01/14/2016

You're not being shallow, you're being deep, deep inside ha. Don't worry about it if he's getting it done in other ways. There's always dildos, that he can use on you. I'm sure his hands are pile-drivers.

lostsoul72 01/15/2016

My advice is to not judge a book by its cover. If he makes you happy then he is a keeper. I dont know how small he is in size , but I would suggest to try other positions that can get him deeper inside. Missionary with your legs up on his shoulders might work or doggy usually works fairly well.

It is very hard to find good people to love us and not be selfish so I would say again if he makes you happy and fulfills your needs in some way sexually then give the guy a chance!

jokiwhau 01/15/2016

Good advice folks - thanks! :-)

cowboy357 01/16/2016

If he's ok with it they make extension strap ons that go over his erect/ soft penis..
another way to get him in deeper & you have more control is for you to be on top..
If you're happy with him in most every other aspect keep him,
there is no 100% perfect relationship, the flaws you ignore,, perfection can get boring..
Compatable couples takes time & patients, understanding & accepting the others imperfections whether they are big or small ones..

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