Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
I'm a pretty physically strong guy, but every time I get around a woman who kinda sparks as we talk and who I could conceivably have a sensational relationship with, I get shy and withdrawn. My heart requires a "kick-start" and, after repeated attempts, it shuts down.
I hate this! Got to push through it!
A new pledge: I will not be afraid to express love.
I hate this! Got to push through it!
A new pledge: I will not be afraid to express love.
Remember you can always LEAVE. Its not like you have no power.
She knows you are human, she wants to know if you are a man, or a boy pretending to be a man. The moment you take the action to be willing to get screamed at and harassed by this woman and you don't can't be moved by it and respond to it with humor, is when everything will be okay, and shes going to respect you more for it.
Ladies if thats right, then say something.
Not to make a movie analogy, but I love the way Tom Cruise "handled" Nicole Kidman in Days of Thunder. She was asking him, basically, "you don't want to race cars all your life, do you? I mean, there must be something else you'd like to do...eventually?" to which he replied, "That's not the question you're really asking. What you're really asking is 'how can I, this brilliant brain surgeon, be in bed with a guy who races cars for a living?'" to which she replied "and what is your answer to that question, by the way?" as she climbed on top of him for boner #7. Ahh, only in the movies...